Annie123 Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 So I have been dating a guy for a little over 2 months now. No talks of being exclusive/relationship but we seemed to be headed that way. We got along great. We were hanging out 2-3 times a week. He seemed really into me. We even started planning a small trip for this May (his idea). That all changed rather suddenly this last week. He asked me if he could cook for me for Valentine's Day. We agreed on Wednesday the 16th because we both worked on the 14th. Tuesday evening, he comes over to take a look at what I have in the kitchen (he was cooking at my place) to see what he needs to bring and what I already have. My roommates both commented on how excited he seemed about our dinner. He wouldn't let me see the recipe cause he wanted it to be a surprise. He just seemed excited. The story could get long, but I'll just say Wednesday came and he had to cancel on me. Since then he has seemed distant. He accepted my invite to go to an amusement park last Tuesday. That went really well and I was excited thinking it was all in my head and he's still interested! We went back to his place to watch a movie and he only gave me a peck on the lips. He didn't initiate anything (we have been intimate for about 3 weeks). Haven't heard from him since Tuesday. I haven't contacted him because since he has been acting distant, I assume that means he wants his space so I am giving it to him. I understand losing interest. I just don't understand how a person loses interest over night. When I lose interest, it happens slowly and it kinda fades. How can you be excited about our dinner date one night, and then suddenly distant the next day? Or maybe something else is going on that has nothing to do with me? I don't know...
Nexus One Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 Are you sure it was his excitement regarding the dinner that dropped, because perhaps something came up and he had to cancel the dinner? Did he give an explanation?
Author Annie123 Posted February 27, 2011 Author Posted February 27, 2011 Thanks for taking the time to reply! He signed up for some online classes and had to buy books for it. So he was tight on money. He asked if we could postpone to Thursday when he got payed. I was understanding and said that would be no problem. Thursday never happened. The reason for that is a LONG story involving dead phones, his ride leaving him, etc. After that, he made no mention about rescheduling again.
xpaperxcutx Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 This has he met someone else written all over it. Sorry if I'm a pessimist, but I've been around the block to know when someone starts distancing themselves. His excuses doesn't sound plausible. Do you ever get the sixth sense that he's capable of lying to your face?
Author Annie123 Posted February 27, 2011 Author Posted February 27, 2011 (edited) Thank you for replying. I also thought that maybe he met someone else. But with the books, he mentioned a few days before canceling that he had to buy books and was looking online for deals, so I saw no reason not to believe him. About Thursday, I actually saw him out with the people he later told me he was with and he was doing what he later said he was doing. He didn't know I saw him until after he told me what happened (I saw him from a distance and couldn't approach him). His phone also always dies because his battery sucks and he listens to music on it. So while he could have been lying, due to circumstances I believed him. But it is possible he is just that good of a liar. Edited February 27, 2011 by Annie123
Ay Diesel T Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 I've been around the block *Clears throat, fixes collar, moves next to Papercut* So uummm, how's it goi- *Magnum falls out of pocket* That's uhh.......that's totally for what you think it's for.
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