September Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 A month ago I meet a great guy. We go out on a fantastic date. He calls, emails and texts constantly. After 2 weeks he tells me he loves me and talks about getting a place together in the near future. He comes to stay at my house most nights. Our children meet each other, all is going great. 2 weeks ago it start's to settle and it begins to feel a little routine. Then the games from his side begin. He wants to go out with his friends a couple of nights per week and dabble in a little Cocaine. I start to feel insecure that he prefers to see his friends and use than spend time with me. When I ask if I will see him, I "hassle" him or am a "ballbreaker". Sex becomes non-existant or he has trouble performing. So I decided to end it a few days ago. I tell him I can't deal with the drug use, the effects it has on him and the way he just cuts me off and ignores me. I then meet another guy and he asks me out last Saturday night, I figure that the other relationship wasn't going anywhere and he didn't seem to care so I decided to go. Then he texts me telling me to have fun on my date (he guessed somehow I was on one). All I said was "thanks, I gave you the opportunity to spend the evening with me but you chose to ignore me again". He then calls the next day asking how my date went, all I said was it was "lovely thank you". Then the conversation is back and forth about us and what I expect from a partner/boyfriend which is love, affection, intimacy and time together- nothing abnormal! The call ended fine with him telling me he would call me later than evening. NOTHING again... It's his birthday today so I text him to say Happy Birthday, again NO RESPONSE. The sad thing is I really like this guy very much and I feel incredibly let down. Why on earth would he behave like this?
xpaperxcutx Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 I'm 16 and i can answer this. BECAUSE HE IS A FRIGGIN COKEHEAD. Like seriously? How did that convo go? "honey i'm going out with the boys tonight just gonna go snort a little coke" Forget about him. Plus who falls in love with someone after two weeks anyway? :lmao::love: Say no drugs OP.
Eddie Edirol Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 Not only a cokehead, but hes not into you enough to be consistent with you. You shouldnt be dating a new guy if youre still contemplating the old guy anyway. You need to concentrate on the new guy and forget about the old one. He doesnt want to change for you, so forget him. BTW he is acting like this because you let him treat you like this.
Ay Diesel T Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 I'm 16 and i can answer this. BECAUSE HE IS A FRIGGIN COKEHEAD. Like seriously? How did that convo go? "honey i'm going out with the boys tonight just gonna go snort a little coke" Forget about him. Plus who falls in love with someone after two weeks anyway? Bro I can't stop laughing. :lmao::lmao: I'm dying!
Leeway Harris Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 I'm 16 and i can answer this. BECAUSE HE IS A FRIGGIN COKEHEAD. Like seriously? How did that convo go? "honey i'm going out with the boys tonight just gonna go snort a little coke" Forget about him. Plus who falls in love with someone after two weeks anyway? Hilarious. Thanks for the laugh.
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