LambChop Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 Julio and i were dating for 7 months (ik not that long as some others) we went to college together and met there , we were the best of friends did everything together . . . and were happy. . but i had a bad habit of lying. . i lied over little things, nothing major but a lie is a lie . . i lied to him once or twice. . but he still stayed with me, then he got discharged from college for never going to class . . our relationship was still strong we talked to eachother all the time and saw eachother when we could i trusted him and facebook was a huge jealously issue and a reason for the break up and for me making stupid mistakes. . . and i hung out with the wrong people and got charged with underaged drinking he was more upset then my parents were with me . . well we broke up over my stupid mistakes and for me not listening to people and before i came home we talked all the time and he was scared of losing me , and since when i came home he just shut me out . . we dont talk at all now b/c i just annoy him . . but how could i annoy him if he wanted to talk to me all the time ? I still harbor feelings for him when i shouldnt he blocked me on facebook and its been since a month and then he unblocked me we havent spoken to eachother b/c he offended me saying i have a new girl and shes hotter smarter and nicer then you hes seeing a girl whose 19 and has a baby not a toddler but a BABY . . im so hurt i dont see how he goes from me to her I did alot of research on getting exs back and all the advice is the same i even bought 2 ebooks and I would take him back . . . I really miss him . . but he says hes in a "serious" relationship with this girl and he has a daughter now (her baby) and hes not going to be dating anyone ever again . . . so I herd of this if the dumpee remains in the picture, the rebound will become a successful relationship; while if the dumpee leaves, the dumper is more likely to become newly attracted to the missing dumpee, and return Which that is my new approach I'm not talking to him . . and I blocked him on facebook. . what would you do
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