Mixed28 Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 When partner bf/gf breakups with you they are saying they no longer want to be with you and who wants someone that does not want them? No one but we don't think with logic when facing a breakup only after time passes do we realize this. Now I have a lot love for my ex and hope she is happy but in the end of the day I really care about my happiness. Thats how you should feel. In all honesty who cares if the dumper is happy with their new bf/gf/sinlge life whatever only you matter. They are irrelevant now. Focus on you and bettering your life. Only your happiness matters now.
huskers11 Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 I agree 100%! With that being said, it is often alot easier said than done! In my case, it was a one sided breakup but it wasn't a bad breakup by any means! Because of this I still care about my ex more than anything. I adore him, which I shouldn't, but my head and heart don't seem to agree on these things! haha.. But great post!
Author Mixed28 Posted February 27, 2011 Author Posted February 27, 2011 I agree 100%! With that being said, it is often alot easier said than done! In my case, it was a one sided breakup but it wasn't a bad breakup by any means! Because of this I still care about my ex more than anything. I adore him, which I shouldn't, but my head and heart don't seem to agree on these things! haha.. But great post! Oh of course. The first month after the break up i lost over 10 pounds! She took my appetite. Its the worst feeling in the world I only realized after I was emotionally stable which took 2 months that I want someone who wants me (and what I said in the post) but thats after the greiving process will someone figure this out especially if its their first serious relationship.
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