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New relationship...is it gonna be a BC?


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I've met this new guy. We started talking on facebook, moved to texting, moved to calling, then moved to hanging out.

 

We've spent two nights at my apartment watching movies. He kissed me the first night, and the second night, he wanted things to go much farther. They didn't.

 

So, I wanted to clear things right up then that I didn't want a booty call, that it was gonna be a while before we had sex, etc. Well, he tells me he's looking for a serious relationship too, he just "really likes me"

 

We text a lot, and he answers a lot of personal questions---I know what his mom and dad do for a living. I'm not being too nosy, cause that's just rude.

 

Anyway, I'm slightly concerned that he's TOO comfortable watching movies at my place. He seems to have NO interest in us going out right now.

 

Granted, it's only been 2 movie nights & no sex, but should I be concerned that this is moving into booty call territory?

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I'm assuming you're the one who invited him over for movies, hence you have no reason to complain. You're only in booty territory if you assertively place in yourself in a situation where you have a bedroom, couch, sofa, etc accessible.

 

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