LondonS Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 would you guys advice me to write a man off whom I have met a couple of times and communicated pretty much daily for last 2 months, He travels a lot for his job and I have an incredibly busy career. Plan was to meet soon but He seem to have dissapeared.He has been pretty consistent so far until this week. I have texted a couple of times generally asking how he is etc, pretty breezy and casual. I indeed have not asked him why is he not replying or anything along the lines because I am not soo overly invested at this point myself. So now that it has been almost a week I have not heard from him, time to write him off?
xpaperxcutx Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 Dating is about compatibility, be it contact, attraction or otherwise. If someone whom you're interested in isn't reciprocative in kind, yes, you do have a right to write him off and move on.
Author LondonS Posted February 27, 2011 Author Posted February 27, 2011 I am getting to know other people as well but he did seem promising. I find it very strange he didnt respond to my contact.
jane100 Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 would you guys advice me to write a man off whom I have met a couple of times and communicated pretty much daily for last 2 months, He travels a lot for his job and I have an incredibly busy career. Plan was to meet soon but He seem to have dissapeared.He has been pretty consistent so far until this week. I have texted a couple of times generally asking how he is etc, pretty breezy and casual. I indeed have not asked him why is he not replying or anything along the lines because I am not soo overly invested at this point myself. So now that it has been almost a week I have not heard from him, time to write him off? I could have written this post word for word. I think until you have a real relationship where you are honest about your feelings - you almost have to be prepared for this "fade out" and absolutely not take things too seriously. Easier said than done - but I think avoiding getting into a "texting" or email relationship helps. Phonecalls and meetings, however few, keep it more real, IMHO. All you can do is leave it, though I know it is difficult and puzzling. It may well be that he contacts you again. However, in that case, you will be put in another dilemma (my recent experience).
Author LondonS Posted February 27, 2011 Author Posted February 27, 2011 He has been very consistent and never struck me as the normal " fade out" type. Oh well. I am just a little dissapointed thats all !
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