seanmathews3 Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 So my ex girlfriend and i broke up about a week ago.. After the break up we went of few days of barely any texting.. i was being pretty short and simple with her, meaning i wasnt going out of my way to keep the conversation going.. so after a few days of little contact.. we had our first day of no contact at all.. and believe me is killed me.. and it still does.. she ended up calling me in the middle of the night and we talked and she sounded sick and stuffy but she told me it was something else (crying). So she was asking to see me so i went over for a little and we talked a little.. she was basically saying how weird it was not talking to me and that day was the longest we havent talked.. so im glad it was bothering her as much as it was bothering me.. so a few days after that (yesterday) we had another non contact day.. but this time she didnt call.. i plan on talking to her tonight for certain reasons.. do you think she was still bothered about it yesterday? id like to think so kuz i sure was... i'd like to think it drove her crazy as much as it did me and will less contact be a good or bad thing on her realizing things.. or would a little more contact be better..
screwball Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 so im glad it was bothering her as much as it was bothering me.. so a few days after that (yesterday) we had another non contact day.. but this time she didnt call.. i plan on talking to her tonight for certain reasons.. do you think she was still bothered about it yesterday? id like to think so kuz i sure was... i'd like to think it drove her crazy as much as it did me and will less contact be a good or bad thing on her realizing things.. or would a little more contact be better.. You don't use no contact as a tool to "fix" other people - you use it as a tool to work on yourself. You are the only person that you can control in this world. Give up hope of getting her back.
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