STAYSTR0NG Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 It will be two weeks tomorrow since my ex and I broke up. I fell very hard for him, he is the first guy I have ever truly loved and cared for in my life. He was my first everything. We broke up due to the distance and timing. I think about him constantly. I can't even find a reason for me to hate him because I respect him and care for him. He was a great guy. In my situation, he was the dumper although I was questioning our relationship because it was causing me stress. It caused me stress because we planned that later on in the future I would be the one to move where he is and I could finish up school there but the stress really took a toll in my life. I wasn't focusing on the things in front of me. And so we broke up because he felt like he was being selfish and forcing me over there. I understand why he did it. It hurt a lot because this wasn't a situation where we fell out of love with each other or one of us wasn't faithful in the relationship, he did it because he wanted me to live my life. I know he cared for me a lot, he thought I was the one for him and wanted a future with me. So that night when we broke up, I asked him if we could talk the next day. He pretty much said we needed at least two weeks apart to help us both.... So here I am. Trying to figure out if I want to contact him after he initiated the no contact. I respected the time apart, should I just see if he contacts me and go from there? Should I even stay in contact with him? (Have a friendship with him? I would feel kind of scummy if I didn't ever stay in contact with the person I lost it to and first loved). Do you think he's hurting to? Does he at least miss me?
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