YssaBoo Posted March 29, 2004 Posted March 29, 2004 Hey everyone I need advice!!If you have read my posts,you know abut the breakup with my bf.Well I took the advice of the no contact rule and it worked.Now the problem!!Starting last week he started the emails and we have been chatting.I came home from work Sat.night and he had emailed me to call him,so I did.We talked for 2 hours and talked about everything except the b/u. He said how he was changing himself and that his favorite new song was "The Reason" by Hoobastank.During this conversation he was watching "Sweet Home Alabama",which he does not watch chick flicks and all these other romantic things. Well on Sunday afternoon,I saw him coming up the sidewalk where I work.He came in and chatted and asked me to go to Fort Wayne with him after work.All the time we dated,he never came to where I work. We did some shopping and came back and sat in the driveway for an hour and talked.It seemed odd because of what we had.There were no hugs,just convo and we actually had fun.It reminded me of when we first started dating. The problem is I remember when we broke up and all the things he said.Do I take them to heart or do I go by the words of the song he told me he loved and wanted to know if I had heard.The words are so fittig to our relationship.I don't know if this is what he wants to tell me and just can't say it?He has never had anyone care for him like I did and everyone says he was scared of a relationship and being dumped.We have been apart for 2 months and neither of us has dated anyone else.It just seems weird of all the stuff that he has done for the past week.Asking my dad where I was,being nice to my mom and the calls and emails. Should I be on my guard,or should we talk about the past mess in the relationship or should I take the advice of the song and start over new.If you have a chance I posted the words in a love song post,check out the words and let me know what you think.
Darkangelism Posted March 29, 2004 Posted March 29, 2004 If you still want to be with him, then be with him, he is trying to get you back. You shouldnt email back under the no contact rule.
journey3 Posted March 29, 2004 Posted March 29, 2004 Actions speak louder than words, & I think he's really trying to make a menz & prove himself. I'd say go for it, but go really slow & make sure it's for real GL Kathy
Author YssaBoo Posted April 1, 2004 Author Posted April 1, 2004 thanks for the advice,he seems to be trying.Something happened on tuesday night though.I had talked to him and he was in a really good mood.He than sent me this email that his day was totally messed up and and worthless and he could have done more with it. He said he was so sad and not many things made him happy anymore and he wanted to go to bed and sleep for a month. I am really worried because he battled depression when he was younger.I called and left a couple of messages last night .He has modeling classes and gets home around 8:30.He hadnt called until 11:00 and I just told him I was worried because of the email.It did scare me.He said it was nothing and he just ate something that didn't agree with him. Normally he doesn't call me back that late.I know something is wrong and I don't know what to do or say.Any advice would be appreciated.People keep telling me he will do this again,but I feel like I am the one who gets him through lately
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