Author SVessel Posted February 27, 2011 Author Posted February 27, 2011 She married at 18, H was 30. He cheats right off the back, and insists at the point they have an open marriage. He continues with OW, she does not; not until one year ago..... Everything was fine until she left H in separation. What made you decide to separate at that point, SVessel? 1. I had been unhappy for a long time and my partner promised me that he would never let anything happen to me and my daughter, even if it didn't work out between us. 2. I asked my husband one last time for marriage counseling and he said no again, and asked him if he loved me and he said not except as the mother of his daughter. (Though he has since said he was just angry that I didn't appear to be making an effort and that he realized he does love me.) He said he was relieved when I asked for a divorce because he made the decision that he wouldn't be the one to end our marriage. He says that is why he's waiting now, too, because he said he will never be the one to end our marriage. (His parents have each been divorced and remarried countless times, from when he was 3, and he hated it.) My partner is waiting because he wants me to be happy and never regret us or our decision. I'm treating both of them like royal crap.
Distant78 Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 She married at 18, H was 30. He cheats right off the back, and insists at the point they have an open marriage. He continues with OW, she does not; not until one year ago..... Everything was fine until she left H in separation. What made you decide to separate at that point, SVessel? Obviously everything wasn't fine if she stayed. Should've left when he cheated. I would not be having my kids witnessing me and her mother married and fooling around with other people.
Darth Vader Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 Everyone take a breathing break!:bunny::bunny: INHALE! EXHALE! Now, my 25 cents! She should've left when hubby wanted to screw around, not start straddling and riding other men when her hubby said she could! That's not teaching her daughter any morals! The dad wasn't, but, that's no excuse for her to saddle up and ride off into the sunset with her OM, she's made the situation even worse! Her husband has no right to impose anything about how he believes onto her, everyone has their choice to make about Almighty God! Obviously, he's made his. To the poster, do you really think that's a way to teach a young girl how to act towards men? Especially when you know riding another man is against Gods laws and commandments? Your girl's gonna be messed up, when she learns what you both have been doing to each other, and you've been taking her to church, where she'll learn it's wrong to be do the things you two are doing to each other! That's why it's called Hypocrisy! Those are the facts! Breathing break over! You may now resume killing each other!:lmao:
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