LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 I would tend to agree with that. He's probably very bitter and that bitterness shows, and no woman wants to be around him. At least I can accept that there are things about me that I can change. People seem to be fine with my personality; however, I need to work on things like this: - Social anxiety around people/being comfortable - Losing weight and getting in shape Those two things, I pretty much am sure are what are holding me back. The OP is a good looking guy. I saw his avatar. But I also have seen how insecure and bitter (and misogynistic) he is, and I was being serious when I said that any woman who ended up with him would be miserable. As far as the topic content goes, it IS common sense. If someone is not responding well, you should next them. I have stopped developing one-itises, and instead have started "nexting" women that reject me, instead of hoping that they'll come around. Because 9 times out of 10, they won't. But calling them "bitches" for rejecting you...well, that just shows what kind of person you are. It is a bad reflection on YOU, not THEM.
Graviton Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 Rotate, rotate, rotate. And they spinnin' and they spinnin'! http://bit.ly/hrTrAs
Jannah Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 I have no doubt, that the OP has options.... He is in his prime, he is physically attractive, good looking face and a hot body. At first introduction, he most likely appears friendly, outgoing, intelligent, humorous. Fantastic qualities. On to the not-so fantastic qualities..... I think most of us can agree, the OP has a negative view towards women filled with contempt and hostility. When people flake, it is a normal reaction to feel disappointed. But, not to this degree....A phone call not returned, upon just having met someone, should not warrant hostility and/or hatred. So, here is what will continue to happen for the OP..... He attracts women, but rejects them, IF/WHEN they do not comply with his terms. Any opposition, is ignored, but he ENJOYS fueling it at the same time, because it garners attention. Over and over and over. No healthy and/or viable relationship will ever develop as a result. So, OP settles for casual sex (I'd presume it is also because he enjoys having casual sex). He will continue to attract this type of lifestyle - feeding into his disdain towards women. What a vicious cycle >>>>>>>>>> Yes it WILL continue to ROTATE, over and over again. Figure out how to break the cycle. THE END.
Nexus One Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 (edited) And they spinnin' and they spinnin'! http://bit.ly/hrTrAs Thanks for the reminder on bit.ly, going to use that one again. I generally think spinning rims on cars are perceived as over the top, but on motorcycles(like the first one in the video) they look pretty cool. My brother has a motorcycle like the one Trinity rides in the Matrix (black): http://bit.ly/gnkFw5 Perhaps I should advise him to put some spinning rims on it. I don't like them on cars very much, but on motorcycles it's a bit different. Edited February 27, 2011 by Nexus One
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 And they spinnin' and they spinnin'! http://bit.ly/hrTrAs YouTube has blocked this content in your country on copyright grounds. Thanks a bunch, YouTube...
dispatch3d Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 When people act kinda ****ty (like flaking out on dates, dicking you around, etc. etc.) the normal reaction is just to ignore them. Why waste energy on people who aren't very nice to begin with?
Nexus One Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 YouTube has blocked this content in your country on copyright grounds. Thanks a bunch, YouTube... Try: ninjawebproxy.com Put the youtube url in the textbox. It does present blocked videos in lower quality though, but at least it works.
fishtaco Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 I donno man, I date the same way as Diesel... I seem to read this from women, not counting the really angry ones, are like this... "Diesel's post has the correct message, but the wording is bad." Here's my point. When you are casually dating, you don't know what you get. A LOT of women behave very poorly out there. Not everyone are like all the nice ladies here on LS - wise, understanding, tolerant, beautiful, skinny, with nice boobs (did I type in enough compliments so I won't get killed like Diesel? Did my ass kissing work?). So when you are dealing with the general public that will hurt you just because they it's convenient for them, you have to emotionally disconnect yourself. That's why the less then desirable verbage. When I first get women on my rotation, I don't respect any of them. I don't disrespect them, I give them the basic respect for human beings, but I don't know how they will behave. Are they flakes? Are they users? Are they trustworthy? What are they after? What's their motive? Then once I get to know them better, and they display good behavior, THEN they get the upgrade. THEN I will have more respect for them. THEN I will trust them more. Some women have said then why date them? This is a basic difference between multi daters and none multi daters. None multi-daters will find out about a person first before dating. Multi daters use dating to find out about a person. If we want to argue about this again, I think it should be done in a different thread. It is what it is. Don't like Diesel's wording, well, his wording are for the general public where most women misbehave. They are not for the caring, awesome, genuine, and have hot ass, women of LS. Anyway that's my take.
xpaperxcutx Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 I donno man, I date the same way as Diesel... I seem to read this from women, not counting the really angry ones, are like this... "Diesel's post has the correct message, but the wording is bad." Here's my point. When you are casually dating, you don't know what you get. A LOT of women behave very poorly out there. Not everyone are like all the nice ladies here on LS - wise, understanding, tolerant, beautiful, skinny, with nice boobs (did I type in enough compliments so I won't get killed like Diesel? Did my ass kissing work?). So when you are dealing with the general public that will hurt you just because they it's convenient for them, you have to emotionally disconnect yourself. That's why the less then desirable verbage. When I first get women on my rotation, I don't respect any of them. I don't disrespect them, I give them the basic respect for human beings, but I don't know how they will behave. Are they flakes? Are they users? Are they trustworthy? What are they after? What's their motive? Then once I get to know them better, and they display good behavior, THEN they get the upgrade. THEN I will have more respect for them. THEN I will trust them more. Some women have said then why date them? This is a basic difference between multi daters and none multi daters. None multi-daters will find out about a person first before dating. Multi daters use dating to find out about a person. If we want to argue about this again, I think it should be done in a different thread. It is what it is. Don't like Diesel's wording, well, his wording are for the general public where most women misbehave. They are not for the caring, awesome, genuine, and have hot ass, women of LS. Anyway that's my take. No your ass kissing doesn't work, you're still dinner on my plate.
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 27, 2011 Author Posted February 27, 2011 I donno man, I date the same way as Diesel... I seem to read this from women, not counting the really angry ones, are like this... "Diesel's post has the correct message, but the wording is bad." Here's my point. When you are casually dating, you don't know what you get. A LOT of women behave very poorly out there. Not everyone are like all the nice ladies here on LS - wise, understanding, tolerant, beautiful, skinny, with nice boobs (did I type in enough compliments so I won't get killed like Diesel? Did my ass kissing work?). So when you are dealing with the general public that will hurt you just because they it's convenient for them, you have to emotionally disconnect yourself. That's why the less then desirable verbage. When I first get women on my rotation, I don't respect any of them. I don't disrespect them, I give them the basic respect for human beings, but I don't know how they will behave. Are they flakes? Are they users? Are they trustworthy? What are they after? What's their motive? Then once I get to know them better, and they display good behavior, THEN they get the upgrade. THEN I will have more respect for them. THEN I will trust them more. Some women have said then why date them? This is a basic difference between multi daters and none multi daters. None multi-daters will find out about a person first before dating. Multi daters use dating to find out about a person. If we want to argue about this again, I think it should be done in a different thread. It is what it is. Don't like Diesel's wording, well, his wording are for the general public where most women misbehave. They are not for the caring, awesome, genuine, and have hot ass, women of LS. Anyway that's my take. Just because I could care less about explaining myself to Loveshack, I'm going to quote fishtaco, because he's spot on with why I get my message across the way I do. Besides, half of the people posting on here are on ignore. They scour these threads for any ammunition they can find in an attempt to shoot me down. You'll notice these same posters on most of my threads: -mme.chaucer -leaningintothemuse (or whatever his name is) -Knittress Why these people keep following me? I'll never know. :lmao:
fishtaco Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 No your ass kissing doesn't work, you're still dinner on my plate. I see what you did there.
xpaperxcutx Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 Just because I could care less about explaining myself to Loveshack, I'm going to quote fishtaco, because he's spot on with why I get my message across the way I do. Besides, half of the people posting on here are on ignore. They scour these threads for any ammunition they can find in an attempt to shoot me down. You'll notice these same posters on most of my threads: -mme.chaucer -leaningintothemuse (or whatever his name is) -Knittress Why these people keep following me? I'll never know. :lmao: You'd ignored all my favorite posters.
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 Lmao, they'll be ok, so will you Papercut. I'm actually shocked, that I come across as a woman hating hostile rape promoter. Lmao, I guess the vulgar language really offends people...on a got damn message board.
fishtaco Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Lmao, they'll be ok, so will you Papercut. I'm actually shocked, that I come across as a woman hating hostile rape promoter. Lmao, I guess the vulgar language really offends people...on a got damn message board. Of course! People never use vulgar languages on the internet, ever! Actually one of the things that surprised me about this forum is the use of proper English. LOL. I mean LS people actually type complete sentences!!!
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 Of course! People never use vulgar languages on the internet, ever! Actually one of the things that surprised me about this forum is the use of proper English. LOL. I mean LS people actually type complete sentences!!! Lol true. Nothing wrong with vulgar language though, it adds an element of emotion that no other words can really get across like that. The emotion doesn't have to be a hostile one though, which most people tie to vulgar language anyways. Back to the topic though. Fellas, stop being soft on these women. If she's acting up, rotate.
AverageJoe Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 I'm actually shocked, that I come across as a woman hating hostile rape promoter. Lmao, I guess the vulgar language really offends people...on a got damn message board. Don't feel bad, there is a member here that accused me of being in the KKK or a nazi of some sort. Simply because I responded to her post with a disagreement that she didn't find soothing enough for her. I guess it pierced a hole in her delicate cocoon of realty. Everything is all good until **** gets real. Then the attacks come.
dispatch3d Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Of course! People never use vulgar languages on the internet, ever! Actually one of the things that surprised me about this forum is the use of proper English. LOL. I mean LS people actually type complete sentences!!! One sentence you say wow look at the proper sentences people use. Next sense is LOL. How is lol a proper sentence? What country do u live in? Are you sure it's they whoa re stoopid and nert you?!!!
dispatch3d Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Don't feel bad, there is a member here that accused me of being in the KKK or a nazi of some sort. Simply because I responded to her post with a disagreement that she didn't find soothing enough for her. I guess it pierced a hole in her delicate cocoon of realty. Everything is all good until **** gets real. Then the attacks come. So you are or aren't a nazi or in the KKK? It seems unclear. Also why do you hate women? haha I need to stop like.. joke trolling. I don't even know what this is.
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 I figured at least all the bull**** ego stroking sugar coating would stop on a message board. How are people going to get help if it isn't kept real? What the **** is wrong with people? I'd hate to be the guy who comes here cause he caught his GF cheating on him, 80% of the replies would be to try and forgive her if I really care about her. L.m.a.o.
EricaH329 Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 I never really understood if what you really want is to date, or to sleep around. As a few others have said, I agree with the fact that if someone is treating you poorly, to remove them from your life. Life is too short to be bothered with someone who can't respect you. However, I think that mentality should apply to everyone in your life, not just females.
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 It does apply to everyone in my life, not just disrespectful women. What do I want? Ultimately a solid relationship. But I don't mind slaying lovely women on the way there. *Slaying is a reference to good and thorough sex, not murder ****'s pretty sad when I have to drop a disclaimer in my posts
Jannah Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Just because I could care less about explaining myself to Loveshack, I'm going to quote fishtaco, because he's spot on with why I get my message across the way I do. Besides, half of the people posting on here are on ignore. They scour these threads for any ammunition they can find in an attempt to shoot me down. You'll notice these same posters on most of my threads: -mme.chaucer -leaningintothemuse (or whatever his name is) -Knittress Why these people keep following me? I'll never know. :lmao: This is exactly what I was referring to. Garnering attention. You enjoy attention, good or bad, let's be truthful here. If that is not true, stop fueling it. If you can't stop, then learn how to, or at least try to.
Author Ay Diesel T Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 This is exactly what I was referring to. Garnering attention. You enjoy attention, good or bad, let's be truthful here. If that is not true, stop fueling it. If you can't stop, then learn how to, or at least try to. Rofl...what?! To stop fueling it would be to stop posting, as they follow me wherever I go even though I've made it clear they're on ignore, and have actually advised them to not even bother posting on my threads. Who wants to be pestered? Faulting me for what other people do? Tisk tisk tisk.
Jannah Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Rofl...what?! To stop fueling it would be to stop posting, as they follow me wherever I go even though I've made it clear they're on ignore, and have actually advised them to not even bother posting on my threads. Who wants to be pestered? Faulting me for what other people do? Tisk tisk tisk. Oh. So you have no hand in any of it, is that what you are suggesting?
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