I made the first move do you think I did the right thing?

[buzzie2]

I finally asked out a guy I have been interested in for a long time. He always seemed interested but never asked me out and I know he is single. When I asked him out he didn't hesitate at all and immediately gave me his number and said anytime would be good to get a hold of him. Is this a good sign or should I have waited for him to ask me out?

[quietGuy13]

I finally asked out a guy I have been interested in for a long time. He always seemed interested but never asked me out and I know he is single. When I asked him out he didn't hesitate at all and immediately gave me his number and said anytime would be good to get a hold of him. Is this a good sign or should I have waited for him to ask me out?

 

You did greaaaaattt. don't feel bad about the guy not being the one who makes the first move.

 

congrats!!!

[sugarmomma]

There's nothing wrong with expressing an initial interest in a man. I'm in the same situation right now and he is happy that I showed some interest. However, as we have progressed I allow him to ask me out sometimes as well. Oh and he pays. After a few more dates I'll reciprocate that.

 

Just make sure he reciprocates and asks you out as well. Don't do all the work and you'll be fine. Good Luck.

[somedude81]

Lucky bastard. (him)

 

Anyways, good for you on making the move.

[musemaj11]

I finally asked out a guy I have been interested in for a long time. He always seemed interested but never asked me out and I know he is single. When I asked him out he didn't hesitate at all and immediately gave me his number and said anytime would be good to get a hold of him. Is this a good sign or should I have waited for him to ask me out?

You did great.

 

But yes dont do all the work.

 

After the first or at the most the second date, wait for him to initiate contact and set up the third date. If he doesnt initiate anything then forget him. You dont want someone who doesnt reciprocate your interest and generosity.