Mrlonelyone Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 On EH advice I saw a interesting proposition. A woman said she would try choosing the less exciting men. Since she has choosen exciting yet unstable men who consistently hurt her. Over time starting to see that feeling of excitement and danger as a red flag. They likened the attraction to sun people to the way bipolar people don't want to take their meds. The highs and lows of the relationship seem exciting...and addictive. What do you all think of this idea.
Cee Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 I totally agree with this as long as attraction and compatibility is there. A good relationship is more thrilling and exciting than a man/woman who is full of drama.
somedude81 Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 What do women even mean by exciting? How does an exciting man stand out from the rest?
jane100 Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 (edited) On EH advice I saw a interesting proposition. A woman said she would try choosing the less exciting men. Since she has choosen exciting yet unstable men who consistently hurt her. Over time starting to see that feeling of excitement and danger as a red flag. They likened the attraction to sun people to the way bipolar people don't want to take their meds. The highs and lows of the relationship seem exciting...and addictive. What do you all think of this idea. I identify with that woman on EH, and to use American slang it "sucks". I don't know why that the scenario arises. Occasoinally there has been more balance, but not enough times for me. However, I do think such unstable men give up quite soon unless you pursue them, as they need that energy/adulation to make their excitement "work". Edited February 27, 2011 by jane100
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