MovingOn13 Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 So guys looking for all of yalls input… So i knew i was going to see her at the college meeting…and I did. When she came in…she walked in really fast…head down… I am not sure if she saw me but i think she did she atleast heard me because we were only like 2 seats from each other. I had been in NC for one month and change…and i decided to say hey and hug her. Why did i do this? It was a form of me letting go and ridding myself of the anger. The break up wasn’t good but it could have been way worse…she just kinda lead me on and what not. Anyway, the convo was pretty basic…she mentioned a lot of whats he had been doing…which to me could be her saying “yeah everything is fine with me.” As a man, i know i am probably over analyzing everything. I asked her if she wanted to go to get yogurt but she had to meet some friends…i dont know how much of this is true or how much is this her not wanting to talk to me. The interesting point is that during the breakup she reaaally wanted to be friends…so maybe she was busy? Lastly, i was cordial with her but once the meeting was up…i left but i was packing up my stuff near the door and she jetted out without saying goodbye and there is no way she didnt see me. I passed her since i was longboarding on the way out and said goodbye and she said good bye and that she liked my longboard. Her avoidance…i know it must be typical…but why? she dumped me and still wanted to be friends but then she seemingly avoids me after not hearing from me for a month in change. I am back into NC and i feel a lot better. Approaching her...really made me feel like I did my part in saying Hey we are done...i dont hate you i am moving on but dont be afraid to talk to me should u reconsider getting back...although i need to fix my issues first. Insights appreciated.
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