quietGuy13 Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 Hello so today i gave a girl 30 dollars. I had no idea how to do it, i thought it would be seen as illegal and the police would be suspicious so we went to a hidden area and i did it. I payed her because she helps me with language learning. But i'm not rich so i don't have the money to pay her everyweek. SO i said , "maybe this will be the last time cause i'm not rich,, so i'll just do it a few more times and you can share tips on how to get better at it" she kind of got disappointed. i'm thinking cause i said thank you on text and she didn't answer in 3 hours already. Before, when we met before, i texted her and she did answer.
fishtaco Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 LOL WUT? First, 3 hours is nothing. Try 3 days. Then probably she's outta there. Also, "thank you" is not a good msg to expect a reply. Try asking a question, or scheduling the next lesson. Second, if she's helping you while getting paid for it, it doesn't count. It was a business transaction. Also why is it illegal? Was she teaching you language skills while you were swapping bodily fluids? Wait a sec here. Did she just agreed to help you, without pay, but you paid her anyway, and then told her you won't be able to afford to pay her anymore? If that's the case, she's disappointed because now she thinks you only want the business transaction. When women do something for you, don't pay for it, unless it was a previously arranged business transaction. Be grateful for it, pay her back in some other ways, but don't hand her money like it was a service.
Leeway Harris Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 Hello so today i gave a girl 30 dollars. I had no idea how to do it, i thought it would be seen as illegal and the police would be suspicious so we went to a hidden area and i did it. I payed her because she helps me with language learning. But i'm not rich so i don't have the money to pay her everyweek. SO i said , "maybe this will be the last time cause i'm not rich,, so i'll just do it a few more times and you can share tips on how to get better at it" she kind of got disappointed. i'm thinking cause i said thank you on text and she didn't answer in 3 hours already. Before, when we met before, i texted her and she did answer. I have no idea what's going on here. What did you pay her for? To help you with language learning? Why did you think that would be illegal?
Author quietGuy13 Posted February 26, 2011 Author Posted February 26, 2011 ohhh sorry i never make sense. I know there's nothing illegal. That's not the point of my message. I'm not doing sex with her. it's just language learning I just said I"ve never paid a girl money, so i didn't know how to give it to her. But anyways, the point of this question is that maybe she got disappointed beause i may not want to continue lessons with her since i don't have much money to afford that
SmileFace Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 Is "language learning" slang for "sex"? haha we posted at the same time She provided you are legal service. You pay her and tell her you can no longer afford her services.
fishtaco Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 ohhh sorry i never make sense. I know there's nothing illegal. That's not the point of my message. I'm not doing sex with her. it's just language learning I just said I"ve never paid a girl money, so i didn't know how to give it to her. But anyways, the point of this question is that maybe she got disappointed beause i may not want to continue lessons with her since i don't have much money to afford that So you like her or this is purely a business transaction? Because that sounds about right to me. If you can't afford to pay her, of course she's disappointed. She lost a client.
K.K. Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 Wait a sec here. Did she just agreed to help you, without pay, but you paid her anyway, and then told her you won't be able to afford to pay her anymore? If that's the case, she's disappointed because now she thinks you only want the business transaction. When women do something for you, don't pay for it, unless it was a previously arranged business transaction. Be grateful for it, pay her back in some other ways, but don't hand her money like it was a service. ^ ^ This right here. She was probably very freaked out. You probably just wanted to do something nice for her but dude.... lol.
Author quietGuy13 Posted February 26, 2011 Author Posted February 26, 2011 So you like her or this is purely a business transaction? Because that sounds about right to me. If you can't afford to pay her, of course she's disappointed. She lost a client. Oh well Al i can say is sorry . But i'm not rich. i hope she understands. Yea I"m not dating her or into her, i just thought to try(language lessons) it out. She's really friendly though, so it would be nice to be friends with her but i don't now if she is willing to continue frienship even if i don't pay for lessons. But she's a busy student and plus she has a boyfriend, so I don't think she would like to be my friend aside from language learning lessons.. So if i stop the lessons, i think i would lose a friend.
fishtaco Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 Oh well Al i can say is sorry . But i'm not rich. i hope she understands. Yea I"m not dating her or into her, i just thought to try(language lessons) it out. She's really friendly though, so it would be nice to be friends with her but i don't now if she is willing to continue frienship even if i don't pay for lessons. But she's a busy student and plus she has a boyfriend, so I don't think she would like to be my friend aside from language learning lessons.. So if i stop the lessons, i think i would lose a friend. Hmmm... your concept of human interaction is completely wrong. First of all, she's not your friend. It was a business deal. Second, if you don't have money for services, then services will not be rendered. Nothing to do with sorry. Third, don't call her a friend until she proves to be a friend. I.e. she's willing to hang out with you just to hang out, and not for making money. Forth, what does this have to do with rich? 30 bucks is not rich. And if there's no business, why would someone that want your business stick around?
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