Ex just text

[BM91]

It's been 8 days NC and she just text saying "hey hope you're ok? do you want mum to drop your jeans and jumper off sometime? x"

 

Basically she broke up with me saying she didn't feel the same anymore, we were together for 9 months.. What should I do? :/

Edited February 26, 2011 by BM91

[BM91]

Anyone got any input atall? :/

[2011]

You could just reply but aloof if you know what I mean. Not sure about this clothes thing, if you need the stuff then try and get it without seeing her, if you have to keep it short and sweet, do not mention the RL or anything negative unless she mentions it. Just txt your fine thanks for asking.

 

You could also just tell her to drop the clothes off at a charity shop if they don't mean that much to you.

 

2011

[BM91]

I'm unsure what to text back or even if I should, its been 2 hours since she sent it

[BM91]

please guys i really don't wanna leave it to late, what should i do? :/

[Rose T]

Do you want the clothes? If you do, text "yes, that's fine", if you don't, you could ignore it if NC's your thing at the moment. She's keeping it light, you do the same if you think a reply is appropriate. Then get back in your submarine.

[BM91]

So I replied, 4 hours later saying "hey, yeah thats fine x" no reply as I expected, I logged onto facebook and saw she had joined a group "If I text you it means I miss you, If I don't then I'm waiting for you to miss me"

 

Maybe that was her way of reaching out, not sure what to do :/

[Rose T]

Why don't you wait and see if she contacts you again? Looks like it's her turn now.

[BM91]

I just feel asif the longer I leave it, the more she thinks I don't care