turokturok5 Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 Was going pretty good, 2-3 weeks of NC, about to go out to a party tonight, when i see a new albumn uploaded on facebook from one of my friends...Yesterday i was meant to go out with them, to the beach and then to one of the girls' house but i decided it would be best for me to go to a university party instead. I told my friends i would meet them there later, but i changed my mind as i thought it may make my ex girlfriend wonder about me. I recieved 3 text messages and 5 missed calls from her best friend that night, so it made me feel a bit better as i knew they wanted me there. Of course, i couldnt resist looking at this albumn and i cycled through it, i saw my ex-girlfriend in most of them...exept it was nothing bad, but it really made my heart sink. She was just there, happy as ever before, as if i had never existed and now im back to square one again, all i can think of is her, and its safe to say my party tonight will be ruined yet again, and she doesnt even know shes doing it.
paiger Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 Facebook will be your biggest demise during this healing process, I swear to you... I deleted my ex off facebook. Deleted EVERYTHING. Every single picture.. everything. I couldn't stand looking at our old pictures together, and also girls writing on his wall. Drove me absolutely insane. Honestly.. You just have to assume the worst and realize your ex IS doing fine without you. Crush every seed of hope in your mind that they want you back, for that will lead you nowhere. I suggest you delete her off facebook... till you reach a time where you CAN just be friends with her. I know what you're going through, trust me... I feel like i'm at the "hump" of it all. You know when you reach halfway, then there's that huge "hump", aka the "oh i'm fine now... but let me peek into his life a bit and check in because i know it won't bother me anymore...." then BAM square 1 all over again. Just gotta resist not bothering with whatever your ex is doing in their life. After all, ignorance is bliss... Even if i'm curious, I'd really rather not know that they're doing amazing without me.
Author turokturok5 Posted February 27, 2011 Author Posted February 27, 2011 hey, yeah i deleted her off facebook last week, its been pretty helpful, i wouldnt really get hurt from viewing hers anyways as she isnt very active on it. But lately..my best friend has been posting stuff on her wall, its really getting to me
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