HeartOnSleeve Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 Has anyone else gone on a match date and had it be the first match for the person they are meeting. The date goes really well and you think your headed for a second date and then nothing. But you can see if they are active on the site. It's almost like the (men in my case) go on their first match date with me and then think well it's only the first and there are probably 500 other nice, pretty, level headed women on the site so why stop at one. Hahaha....am I crazy for thinking this way. I've gone out with 5 guys and taken their match v-card, had great chemistry and then nothing. Example was yesterday. Went out with an amazing guy we sat and talked for almost 3 hours. He didn't kiss me (which is fine, i don't typically kiss on the first meeting), but he was touchy and got closer as they night went on. We went to his car and he hugged me and said it was really nice to meet me and walked off and immediately got on his phone. Not really sure how to read it, but I'm assuming that he's ready for his NEXT match date. Anways..guys and gals is this the case....when it's your first date off an online dating site do you think it's one of many?!
SmileFace Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 It usually goes: HIM: "So, am I the first person you met from, "site name". ME: "No" HIM: -_- "so how many? lol Anways..guys and gals is this the case....when it's your first date off an online dating site do you think it's one of many?! No, not at all.
Author HeartOnSleeve Posted February 26, 2011 Author Posted February 26, 2011 (edited) Hahaha....they never ask me how many, but I just feel like: here they are, they've paid however much and to meet a cool chic on the first date they go on would be a "waste"...lol. So if I had a good time should I shoot him a text and tell him that today or do I just wait it to see if he calls me in the next week. Edited February 26, 2011 by HeartOnSleeve
TouchedByViolet Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 So if I had a good time should I shoot him a text and tell him that today or do I just wait it to see if he calls me in the next week. As a guy, I like getting a positive text message from a lady after a date. Ideally with 24 hours of the date ending. That way if the interest is mutual a second date can be setup. I have terrible luck with women and dating though
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