shallz Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 we dated for 6 months, so we've been broken up for about 6-7 months now (they broke up with me), with little or no contact during the fall. in the past couple months we've hung out (dinner & drinks) and very recently too. more times than i care to remember ive written this person off, telling myself im not going to respond if they text/call me and im not going to text/call them to get together. i fail everytime. if i call/text to get together, they either go unaswered or theyre busy, when they call/text me i always answer and agree to get together even though i know its a bad idea. and even after all the times ive told this person to not call me or text me again and that we cant be friends, we still end up communicating or hanging out. even after all the bad mouthing we've said to one another over this time, we still hang out. there is still physical attraction there and we've both seen other people, but what im asking is why do we keep going back to hanging out with one another? i guess we're just 'friends' w/ no benefits? are they just dangling the hook to see if im still interested and that ill be there whenver in case they want back in? are they really just trying to be friends, is this a friendship? am i just that person they hang out with if no one else is around? so lost.....
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