originalsphinx Posted March 28, 2004 Posted March 28, 2004 Hey guys, I know I haven't been on for a while, but my computer is getting tempermental on me. anyway, i have a sort of dilemma and I am seeking the wise-dom of the LS members... when my ex and I were 2gether i became friendly with a number of his friends and i still am. There is this one in particular, a guy, who is practically my ex's best friend, who i get along very well with. Anyway, I recently found out that he has had a crush on me for as long as I have known him and yesterday he asked me out. I am not sure if he is asking me out because my ex is now out of the picture, but I really value him as a friend and would like us to stay that way. So do I say no or do I go out with him as just friends?
yes Posted March 28, 2004 Posted March 28, 2004 if you're not interested in dating him, make it clear that you can only be friends. getting together alone is not a good idea, in that case, why give him hope?... -yes
Darkangelism Posted March 28, 2004 Posted March 28, 2004 Dating him would be wrong, but being his friend should be ok.
SCK- Posted March 30, 2004 Posted March 30, 2004 well you pretty much just answered your own question, from what you have said it seems that you would like to keep him as a good friend, situations like these are hard, because it can ruin such a beautiful friendship sometimes
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