asianqt Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 So, my ex and I went out for 17 months. I took him for granted during our relationship, but sometimes he just didn't understand that I was going through lots of depression and stress from schoolwork. He treated me so well, and he would always be there for me, but then he got clingy at times and I just wanted my space. He left me during the summer, and then a week later he gets with another girl. I was broken-hearted, and I felt like I completely lost my sanity. He continued to talk to me and tell me he still loved me while he was with that girl. He strolled it along for MANY months (about 6 months), and one day, I jsut snapped and told him he can't tell me he loves me while he is still hanging out with her. He finally ended it with her, and now I can't even trust him. At one point, he told me he ended it with her, but he was just lying to me. That just pissed me off. He tells me he doesn't talk to her anymore, and he doesn't hang out with her anymore. They broke up, but she still tells everyone that he's her boyfriend. I hurt him and he hurt me. What happens now? I mean we still talk like everyday and love each other, but I don't know if a relationship will work right now. i want to be with him, but at the same time, I despise him for what he did. I already apologized for what I did; I mean, do i continue to apologize? Or do i tell him it's either he wants to work it out with me now or never. That seems kind of harsh, but he's afraid of telling people he still has feelings for me. What would you do?
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