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All I see are tall, lanky and thin men. I don't want to date a Yao Ming lookalike with feminine features. I certainly don't want to date someone who's skinnier and weighs less than me. Where are the average heighted masculine men? :lmao::lmao::p

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All I see are tall, lanky and thin men.

 

Wow! I wish that was all the men I see. You can have all the masculine muscular men papercut, and I'll keep all the tall, lanky thin men. Then we will both be happy.:D

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Wow! I wish that was all the men I see. You can have all the masculine muscular men papercut, and I'll keep all the tall, lanky thin men. Then we will both be happy.:D

 

Really? I mean is it really natural for men to be so skinny? I have seen very, very lanky men who can themselves pass for women if they grew out their hair and wear dresses. :confused:

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Wonder how this would go down if a guy posted a "what happened to the nice slim but curvy girls?" thread

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Wonder how this would go down if a guy posted a "what happened to the nice slim but curvy girls?" thread

 

:lmao::lmao:

 

I don't want to know. You do know this thread isn't all that serious, right? Lighten up.:laugh:

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All I see are tall, lanky and thin men. I don't want to date a Yao Ming lookalike with feminine features. I certainly don't want to date someone who's skinnier and weighs less than me. Where are the average heighted masculine men? :lmao::lmao::p

 

Why, how much do you weigh? (I'm not expecting an answer.) ;)

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Wonder how this would go down if a guy posted a "what happened to the nice slim but curvy girls?" thread

 

Yes, where are they? Send them my way if they are tall. ;)

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I have to admit I also find it a turn-off if a guy weighs less than me; it makes me feel like an elephant. Plus I'm not exactly big (130 pounds) so if a guy is skinnier than me he's really skinny! I prefer big masculine men, ideally weighing at least a couple of hundred pounds, with a nice hairy chest. Luckily I'm dating one :)

 

I wouldn't agree that all the men around are tall and skinny though. I do see quite a few decent sized men, but while they weigh 30-40 pounds more than me, they still aren't really big enough for my tastes. But for most women, 30-40 pounds is a sufficient weight difference between themselves and a man.

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Really? I mean is it really natural for men to be so skinny? I have seen very, very lanky men who can themselves pass for women if they grew out their hair and wear dresses. :confused:

 

There is such a thing as too skinny, but i am attracted to feminine enrgy, perhaps more so then masculine energy, so nice girly looking guys kind of work for me, especially if they white, witha good head of hair and well endowed. Hmmm....(geekiness, high intellect and funny are also greatly appreciated).

 

BTW papercut, I think you're really beautiful and if I was going to try the lesbian thing (or threesome thing) I would want to meet someone like you. I love your posts and your attitude. I think you're really cool.

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All I see are tall, lanky and thin men. I don't want to date a Yao Ming lookalike with feminine features. I certainly don't want to date someone who's skinnier and weighs less than me. Where are the average heighted masculine men? :lmao::lmao::p

 

I'm 5'8" (maybe on the shorter side but close to average) and I weigh 190 lbs with an athletic/muscular build.....but I'm taken ;)

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Really? I mean is it really natural for men to be so skinny? I have seen very, very lanky men who can themselves pass for women if they grew out their hair and wear dresses. :confused:

I am 5 10 and weigh 155 and could probably pass for a woman if my hair was different.

 

Men have less body fat so a lanky guy could actually weigh 200 lbs if he's 6 feet or more.

 

Picture of the tall lanky "feminine" Yao Ming....holding up Jackie Chan. :p

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There is such a thing as too skinny, but i am attracted to feminine enrgy, perhaps more so then masculine energy, so nice girly looking guys kind of work for me, especially if they white, witha good head of hair and well endowed. Hmmm....(geekiness, high intellect and funny are also greatly appreciated).

 

 

hah that makes me a real box checker. It's good to know that there are girls out there that actively look for these things :p

 

On topic I'm 5'10, 125lbs and I have long hair. You can keep the dress though ;) I could probably pass for a woman if I *really* wanted to... which I don't lol. but my shoulders are too broad despite my weight. I've been told my build is like Jim Morrison in his younger days. I'll happily take that as a compliment :p

 

By the way, can really skinny guys get away with skinny jeans? I keep threatening to get some. Usually I wear slightly baggy clothes so I don't look quite so skinny :p

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They're in the gym.

 

Seriously, I see more bulky guys than skinny guys, at least around college.

 

I'm just wondering where the OP lives, because I don't see that where I am.

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They're in the gym.

 

Seriously, I see more bulky guys than skinny guys, at least around college.

 

I'm just wondering where the OP lives, because I don't see that where I am.

 

I live in an area where it's predominantly Asian and white. Bulky doesn't equate to muscular, they could be most skinny fat and that's still not attractive.

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Hii how have you been?

 

PS I'm right here

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Why, how much do you weigh? (I'm not expecting an answer.) ;)

 

I weigh 110.

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There is such a thing as too skinny, but i am attracted to feminine enrgy, perhaps more so then masculine energy, so nice girly looking guys kind of work for me, especially if they white, witha good head of hair and well endowed. Hmmm....(geekiness, high intellect and funny are also greatly appreciated).

 

BTW papercut, I think you're really beautiful and if I was going to try the lesbian thing (or threesome thing) I would want to meet someone like you. I love your posts and your attitude. I think you're really cool.

 

Feminine energy is good and I don't mind that a guy is in touch with his feminine side, but that will usually mean I rather be their friend than their girlfriend.

 

Thanks, I love your attitude as well T. Too bad you live in Australia, we could so hit it off.

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I weigh 110.

 

pfftt I can curl you

 

no seriously, I curl 130 lbs regularly.

 

I can benchpress 3 of you

;)

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There is such a thing as too skinny, but i am attracted to feminine enrgy, perhaps more so then masculine energy, so nice girly looking guys kind of work for me, especially if they white, witha good head of hair and well endowed. Hmmm....(geekiness, high intellect and funny are also greatly appreciated).

 

BTW papercut, I think you're really beautiful and if I was going to try the lesbian thing (or threesome thing) I would want to meet someone like you. I love your posts and your attitude. I think you're really cool.

 

I was totally into that type of guy when I was younger. I was a straight girl who went for the somewhat-androgenous person. But then something shifted in my mid-20s and I became a somewhat-bi girl who is attracted to more gender-conforming folks.

 

LOL, maybe you just think papercut is hot but aren't yet willing to admit it? ;) I'd date her.

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Yea, what happened to 'em?!?!? :confused:

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Wonder how this would go down if a guy posted a "what happened to the nice slim but curvy girls?" thread

Just check the archives . We have hundreds of those threads

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Right here baby, sup?

 

*Attempt at Jersey Shore casting dialogue*

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By the way, can really skinny guys get away with skinny jeans? I keep threatening to get some. Usually I wear slightly baggy clothes so I don't look quite so skinny :p

 

OMG NO NO NO NO!!!! No skinny jeans on men!!!

 

There is even a Budweiser commercial where a bartender asks this guy in skinny jeans why he is wearing his girlfriend's pants!!

 

NO please!!

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pfftt I can curl you

 

no seriously, I curl 130 lbs regularly.

 

I can benchpress 3 of you

;)

 

Oh burn!!! You were totally like trying to impress her, but she didn't even respond.

 

But seriously, it's all genetics. I'm skinny because of genetics (Asian, surprise, surprise), and I've worked really hard to try to beat my genetics. Even though I look more healthy because I have more muscle mass, I'm sure I'm less healthy on the inside. Because I've pretty much had to force feed myself and lift heavy at the gym (which resulted in numerous injuries), in order to gain muscle weight, in order to be not skinny the good way, in order to compete with guys like mo mo.

 

For awhile I seriously considered steroids. After researching it, I realized it's not as evil as everybody thinks (really, it's no big deal, public concept of it is blown out of proportion, don't believe me, research it yourself), but I decided against using it anyway.

 

It's less common for women to like skinny guys. Most women, if the guy isn't in the perfect athletic shape, prefer men that err on the fat side than the thin side. Reason is simple, women generally don't like to date men that are skinnier than they are, even if they don't have a thing for muscle-bound guys.

 

So I'm still working on it. Ideally I want another 15lbs of lean muscle mass, then I'll start cutting. And I'll be a fairly muscular medium sized guy, which is my final goal... I can't become a huge comic book super hero sized guy even if I wanted to anyway. But even that's REALLY difficult for me to do without using steroids... damn my Asian skinny genes. But when it's time to cut, it'll be easy as pie. My Asian genetics will help me shed fat like the government wastes tax payers' money.

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All I see are tall, lanky and thin men. I don't want to date a Yao Ming lookalike with feminine features. I certainly don't want to date someone who's skinnier and weighs less than me. Where are the average heighted masculine men? :lmao::lmao::p

whats wrong with yao ming?

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