spackle Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 Has anyone gone silent or used NC to test a partner and their interest level? If you have what effect did it have? I know people shouldn't play games and plenty of women get accused of playing games.
depplover_1980 Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 Play with fire and risk a nasty burn...
Author spackle Posted February 25, 2011 Author Posted February 25, 2011 Play with fire and risk a nasty burn... or at least a stubble rash on your thigh:laugh: It's just there have been several threads lately where people have asked about using NC or at least going silent for a while to either get an ex back, to 'hurt' an ex, to test if a current partner/ex has feelings for them. I wondered if anyone would admit to knowingly playing that card?
depplover_1980 Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 When I was younger and enjoyed a high dramatic life I would constantly end the relationship to test if he'd fight for me, which he always did. But never tried NC etc for that reason, it would have left me too insecure!
flow15 Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 My ex broke up with me a month ago, and as much of a jerk as he was to me, I think a part of me secretly wants him back. I've been NC for nearly a month now, and even though I know I should be doing it to help me move on and heal... there is a part of me that is testing my ex to see if he misses me. I think most people who go into NC are doing it partly to help them to move on and partly to see if their ex will miss them and come back
Tofu Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 My ex broke up with me a month ago, and as much of a jerk as he was to me, I think a part of me secretly wants him back. I've been NC for nearly a month now, and even though I know I should be doing it to help me move on and heal... there is a part of me that is testing my ex to see if he misses me. I think most people who go into NC are doing it partly to help them to move on and partly to see if their ex will miss them and come back yeh i feel the same way as you flow, as much as i want to focus on moving on and look at my ex as negatively as possible (which is working like a charm btw), there is still a v small hint of doubt in me that would be more than willing to take her back if there ever was the chance. as much as we want to move on there will still be some feelings left for our ex's i think.
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