LindseyPainter Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 Me and my boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) have been dating on and off for a year.The first time we broke up was over me being on vacation and him having trust issues and him wanting me to come home early so we decided we wouldn't talk for awhile .Well then he got with another girl very quick about two weeks later. I couldn't believe when I got back from my vacation and got on Facebook and saw a picture of him with another girl so soon i couldn't believe he was acting like nothing ever happened.Well while they were dating his new girlfriend added me on Facebook and also called me a whore I found this a little strange because I didn't even know the girl but i figured he had told her about me .After they had been dating for around four months or so he contacted me over a text message. I asked about him and his girlfriend and he said that he wasn't happy and he acted like he didn't want to be in the relationship with her anymore he was also telling me how sorry he was that we broke up and calling me on the phone to talk.Well soon after that they broke up and we got back together he told me he never really got over me and that he still loved me. Well then we broke up again the second time was because we were arguing over his trust issues and then he said the thing he knew would hurt me the most he told me that he he would never get over his ex so i broke up with him. Then he moved on really fast again he seemed a little sad for awhile because I would see on his Facebook where he would say he couldn't sleep and that his life sucked . but anyways then he said that he was happy with a new girl and that he hoped he wouldn't mess it up and so my question is how does he move on so fast? he even tried to get his ex back after we broke up and how can he move on so fast? He even had asked me to marry him and then just forgot all about me. he changes his mind so much he told me that he is bipolar. Also my other question is do you think he will try to come back again like he did the last time? I am just hurting so bad I can not even go a day without thinking about him I just feel numb i just hope he comes back and also its been a month since we last talked.Please help!!
youweremyanchor Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 I can personally say, I like single life, but I like and need companionship. Basically, I don't like to be alone. To me, it sounds like he's filling a void with someone, anyone. Doesn't necessarily mean he's happy, its a distraction of sorts. Thats my thought anyways.
Emilia Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 he sounds very much like someone I know I'm guessing he is really young, still immature and gets overly emotional quickly. one of my exes is like that although he is maturing. it's not that he got over you quickly, it's just that he needs distraction. I'm guessing he also gets bored easily. just immature more than anything. I'd say he probably gets anxious too (trust issues) so basically he isn't as self-contained as he could be
vanillaskies Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 Your ex does sound like someone who is bi polar. And honestly you need to be done with him. The next time he contacts you do not answer. Move on from this guy! Secondly, delete him from facebook. Why are you still keeping up with him if you two are broken up? Don't worry about who he is with and what he's doing. Because apparently he's not worried about you. Take that time to work on yourself. And to answer your question about how he can move on so fast, well the only way I see it is to replace that person with someone new. He's just going back and forth because he knows he can. He knows no matter what he can date someone and if it doesn't work out, come back to you. Stop the pattern girl.....
Nexus One Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 Perhaps you and all those other girls are rebounds. If he really isn't over his ex, then breaking up with her quite probably left him with a gaping hole in his chest. It's possible that he tried to fill that hole with whatever roughly fitted in there.
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