jen_r Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 Remember when I asked if I should even consider taking my ex back after he slept with someone else? Well, jokes on me. Per usual. I agreed to just TALK, I had no real intentions on taking him back unless he committed to a bunch of stuff I had line up. He ended up blowing me off, acting like a jerk when I asked why he wasn't returning my texts, saying "I told you I was out, F**K, I'll talk to you when I f**king feel like it!" And that was that. I cannot take that anymore. The night that I spent with him he was saying he wanted me back so badly, wanted to have a baby with me...you dont mess with someones head like that - you just dont! So I sent his mother an email saying "If your son contacts me one more time, I will be taking drastic measures. I am tired of this!" Now, I am back at squaure one. Except now its 100 times harder because I constantly keep thinking about him sleeping with that girl. After all this, I deserve something really great, I can't wait for it to come to me. Why am i so f**king stupid? I know better than this.
cerridwen Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 Sorry Jen. You've been ripped up over this relationship for awhile now. Recommit and devote the energy into working on your issues. You asked why you're so stupid? Better to ask why you're attracted to a jerk--not him--just a jerk in general. Take him out of the equation because this really *IS* about you, what you'll put up with, why you think you deserve shoddy treatment. What's happened in your life--in your head that has encourage you to take a 2nd big helping of Jerk? If you want to take away the hurt, empower yourself by deconstructing what's happening within YOU. Eventually, any jealousy about the new girl will fade and be replaced with pity. ((Hug))
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