We went seperate ways and I am on POF and she is annoyed

[califsb]

She was not ready for a full relationship.. we were in one and she went hot and cold and said she needed time to find "me" before she can be in a "we"

 

I said.. i cant take the rollercoaster and asked for NC.. then i said we can be friends since she said she misses spending time with me.. now i am back to NC and when she contats me to hang out i am going to say.. sorry i am busy.

 

But she told one of my friends she is surprised i am on plenty of fish dating site already only 3 weeks after we took a break..

 

hmm she wants me in her life but in her way only so she can decide down the road if she wants to go back to full R or just remain friends

 

i said screw that and postig stuff on my fb about being busy.

 

We have commoen friends.. all of whom she met via me. ( mostly girls she hangs out with)

 

q2uestion is why is she upset i was on POF when she does not want a R?

[cmh2002]

she could be afraid of losing her back up plan.

[WTRanger]

She has no right to be mad. She's just pissed you aren't going to chase her. She wants your committed attention but wants her options open.

 

Good for you for lot playing into her BS!

[Woggle]

She didn't want to be with you so she has no right to dictate what you do.

[califsb]

Yup u guys are rigtht. She is spolit. only child and loves to get attention..

 

She kept saying she loves being around me and told one of my friends she was happy we were going to try to make it work as friends.. baby steps is what she said...

 

any girls on here.. love to get some girls point of view on this

[depplover_1980]

Well my viewpoint is the same; it sounds like she loves attention and may even be doing the break to create drama, then when she saw you were getting on with life, she creates another drama.

 

You'd be better off without this crazy girl in your life, we aren't all wired that way and you can find someone that is into you and not afraid to say it and show it.