roman_pavluchenko Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 my ex's best friend asked me why i deciding i was going to start ignoring my ex, i told her straight out, NC. That if i didnt contact/see her for a while she might miss me and take me back, otherwise i will move on, win win situation. Was meant to go to a party tomorrow where my ex and her best friend would be, but i decided to go somewhere else to avoid my ex. Do you think if her best friend told her i was avoiding her so maybe she misses me and comes back it'l blow it
wmrjw82 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 my ex's best friend asked me why i deciding i was going to start ignoring my ex, i told her straight out, NC. That if i didnt contact/see her for a while she might miss me and take me back, otherwise i will move on, win win situation. Was meant to go to a party tomorrow where my ex and her best friend would be, but i decided to go somewhere else to avoid my ex. Do you think if her best friend told her i was avoiding her so maybe she misses me and comes back it'l blow it I think that was a big "no no"....you know her friend is going to run back and tell your ex everything you just told her and I also think deep down you knew this. It was a way for you to reach out which is fine. It's done and over with. Dont dwell on it. Stick to STRICT NC from this point (no convo's w/ ex's best friends, etc.)... i'm not sure how old you are but this sounds like a high school thing. If so, disregard everything I just said because all your feelings are going to change in a few years anyway.
Author roman_pavluchenko Posted February 24, 2011 Author Posted February 24, 2011 I think that was a big "no no"....you know her friend is going to run back and tell your ex everything you just told her and I also think deep down you knew this. It was a way for you to reach out which is fine. It's done and over with. Dont dwell on it. Stick to STRICT NC from this point (no convo's w/ ex's best friends, etc.)... i'm not sure how old you are but this sounds like a high school thing. If so, disregard everything I just said because all your feelings are going to change in a few years anyway. yeah its just me and her best friend are pretty close, and she tells me stuff about her boyfriend (who is my best friend) and i havent said a single word to him so im hoping she does the same. Uhh yeah i just finished high school, moving into uni, i just still really like her
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