guitarguy09 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 its been two months since my girlfriend of 2 years left me. She was my first. Im 17. One week of breaking up and going back together, that week was definitely an emotional roller coaster for me. She said she was confused with what she wants ( there was another guy involved) barely even knew him and about 3 weeks later i discovered she was involved with him. I just couldnt believe it. When we were together shed always tell me she wouldnt ditch me for him. I always thought he was the cause of the b/u but she said it was a coincidence that someone was there. So it's pretty much hard to comprehend on my part, i guess this is g.i.g.s Did the usual begging but cut all contact. I wrote a song about it and she had statusd about playing it over and over and responded with "time is all ill give it. and maybe just maybe we will find her". anyways, she readded me on facebook after she blocked me along with a msg ":)" i confirmed but i havent looked at her profile since i know i am not ready. itll only hurt me. Now here I am. My days are getting a little better but sometimes I cant stand but just think of her and cry about it. Its as if i want to feel the pain or i just let it all out. Do you think this is normal? I just really miss her
depplover_1980 Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 Hi Guitarguy, It is very normal to still be upset and crying at the 2 month mark after a 2 year relationship with your first love!! Especially as you're still a teenager, which means your hormones are still a bit wappy anyway, you poor thing!! I send you a kiss. I think you are doing well not looking at her profile etc - I always say remove the temptation to torture yourself, so remove her again as you could do without being 'friends' right now. Don't contact her or give her any chance to reject you. Try and get out with your friends as much as you can and slowly you'll start to see the light again. You sound really strong so well done.x
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