summerbreeze213 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 i broke a one year relationship off cuz he couldnt commit himself fully. after we broke up, i went turkey cold on him. in the next seven months of silence on my mind, he tried several times contacting me and asked our mutual friends to send his regards. i ignored them all. during the seven months,i just wanted to move on but i thought about him every single day. weeks ago. he texted me and i responded this time. we had a good time catching up. and have been talking at least one every other day, if not every day. i asked him why he kept trying to talk (i thought he just wanted to make peace at first), he says he misses me. i certainly have shown i still have feelings for him too but there were a couple of times, i would go "i dont think things are different now than beofre" "i think we should cut contact" but then changed my mind the next minute. Because I am just confused.. i also told him i feel sorry for him when i had negative emotions to dump on him and he did say he felt we could blossom into something if there was less temper tantrum.. but he didnt expect me to change overnight... is it too early (been talking since 2.5weeks ago) to ask him if heal still can't commit, stay away? and i've initiated phone calls while he hasnt after we recontacted. that was probably a wrong move : (
Bluebelle38 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 A text message is not going to make him fall out of love with you if he is in love. If you want to try again then organise to meet him and ask him outright what his agenda is. It doesnt have to be so complicated. You obviously want to try again. Grab this chance while you have it or live with regreats of what if. Best of luck - be assertive and if nothing has changed then get back to NC.
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