East7 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 Just for fun, I found this two songs perfect for : MW : (the lyrics are absolutely fantastic ) Single OM :
Heather1 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 That just teared me up!! A few people have been through this before us huh? Right person, wrong time stuff Trying to sort it, trying to be the good person & do the right thing by OW/OM. I can totally relate....I've never had this happen before, so I didn't know. Here's my song:
Author East7 Posted February 24, 2011 Author Posted February 24, 2011 That just teared me up!! A few people have been through this before us huh? Right person, wrong time stuff Trying to sort it, trying to be the good person & do the right thing by OW/OM. I can totally relate....I've never had this happen before, so I didn't know. Yeah...Kelly's song kills me...
Heather1 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 Me too We'll get through this!! I can't tell what stage of grief I'm in? Denial? Off to swim it out!
joey66 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 That just teared me up!! A few people have been through this before us huh? Right person, wrong time stuff Trying to sort it, trying to be the good person & do the right thing by OW/OM. I can totally relate....I've never had this happen before, so I didn't know. Here's my song: Heather, that song is brilliant. Loved it.
JaneyAmazed Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 Yeah...Kelly's song kills me... I heard Kelly's song during my affair and used to cry. Now when I hear it, I still get sad but somehow relieved too. I wouldn't want to go back to that time. I have selective memory sometimes. I forget how sad was I was DURING the affair and how unfulfilled I was. I think I may have actually cried more during the affair than after. For me, tears of guilt are worse than tears of remorse. I'm waiting for the mended heart and tears of joy now.
JaneyAmazed Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVWYhkWPZ7A This is my new song that reminds me of my husband.
Heather1 Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 This is a perfect A dynamic's song, just the addiction of the whole thing.
mbm69 Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 I love this one about heartbreak and growing stronger because of it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5sUFvfznpfs
believed Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 I can totally relate....I've never had this happen before, so I didn't know.[url= ][/url] I didn´t know either.... Here's my song: The lyrics are so true: For all that we struggle For all we pretend It don't come down to nothing Except love in the end And ours is a road That is strewn with goodbyes But as it unfolds As it all unwinds Remember your soul is the one thing You can't compromise Take my hand We're gonna go where we can shine
Heather1 Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 Such a beautiful song....he's the best songwriter. Here's a dance around the house naked song to cheer you all up http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cTfZXh427B0&feature=related
White Flower Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 Just for fun, I found this two songs perfect for : MW : (the lyrics are absolutely fantastic ) Single OM : How can you not cry to Kelly's song? That was gut-wrenching.
Distant78 Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 Oh god. These songs sound like something off of One Tree Hill.
White Flower Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 Oh god. These songs sound like something off of One Tree Hill. I know you're not talking about the U2 song. Must be a TV show. I don't watch TV so the comment is lost on me.
Distant78 Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 I know you're not talking about the U2 song. Must be a TV show. I don't watch TV so the comment is lost on me. Yes it's a TV program.
tami-chan Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 Just for fun, I found this two songs perfect for : MW : (the lyrics are absolutely fantastic ) Single OM : ahhhh..."Already Gone", that song reminds me of that MM who used to post here, remember him-Devil Inside? I wonder what happened to him.
Spices Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 (edited) I heard this song on the radio & it reminded me of this forum & the stories from the various OW who post here who are constantly hurt by their MM. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gO3xQvz6gdQ Jar of hearts No I can't take one more step towards you, cuz all that's waiting is regret And don't you know I'm not your ghost anymore, you lost the love I loved the most I've learned to live half alive, and now you want me one more time And who do you think you are, running round leaving scars Collecting your jar of hearts, and tearing love apart You're gonna catch a cold from the ice inside your soul So don't come back for me, who do you think you are? I hear you're asking all around if I am anywhere to be found But I have grown too strong to ever fall back in your arms I've learned to live half alive, and now you want me one more time And who do you think you are, running round leaving scars Collecting your jar of hearts, and tearing love apart You're gonna catch a cold from the ice inside your soul So don't come back for me, who do you think you are? It took so long just to feel all right, remember how to put back the light in my eyes I wish I had missed the first time that we kissed, cuz you broke all your promises And now you're back, you're looking to get me back And who do you think you are, running round leaving scars Collecting your jar of hearts, and tearing love apart You're gonna catch a cold from the ice inside your soul So don't come back for me, don't come back at all And who do you think you are, running round leaving scars Collecting your jar of hearts, tearing love apart You're gonna catch a cold from the ice inside your soul Don't come back for me, don't come back at all Who do you think you are? Who do you think you are? Who do you think you are? "I've learned to live half alive, and now you want me one more time" Haunting. Edited February 27, 2011 by Spices
Author East7 Posted February 27, 2011 Author Posted February 27, 2011 How can you not cry to Kelly's song? That was gut-wrenching. I know...It's heart ripping..I sent the link to xMW some weeks ago (when she broke NC) and she said she wanted to cry. Remember all the things we wanted, now all the memories they're haunted.. we were always meant to say Goodbye. ..../..... Where we take this road someone's got to go I heard this song on the radio & it reminded me of this forum & the stories from the various OW who post here who are constantly hurt by their MM. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gO3xQvz6gdQ "I've learned to live half alive, and now you want me one more time" Haunting. Jar of Hearts is the perfect OW's song.
Mrs. Jones Posted February 27, 2011 Posted February 27, 2011 All of the songs posted here are excellent and I can very much relate to them. @Heather1 - I am not quite there with my H and wonder if I ever will be. I'm glad you're healing in that direction and feeling good about it. @ FindingNemo – Thank you for sharing such a great video…and what passion. I shared this kind of passion with my xMM. It’s something I’m having a hard time getting over, as is he (He told me this a couple of weeks ago...he broke NC). My H is nothing like that with me and never was. What do you do with that? Maybe I need to mosey on over to the s*x forum…or have the H do it. My xMM and I exchanged a lot of music. This was one of the songs I gave him.
FightClub Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 (edited) Since we're talking about songs of the OM/OW...I figured why not chime in. I used to play this song a lot and would share it with xMW, Brian McKnight had quite a few songs about a woman he wanted to be with even though she was with someone else. And for all those wondering about, 'Can we be friends?' this song is a good classic. -FC Edited March 19, 2011 by FightClub
Happy Finally Posted March 20, 2011 Posted March 20, 2011 Everbody is posting their songs and this is one I feel I can relate too..it can be either for the OP or the MP....it's a different genre than most of these other songs. But if you listen to the lyrics...they are so on point and the name of the song is a great metaphor when you put it with the lyrics. And it's from the best band ever.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=czyS7kSvB7w
FightClub Posted March 25, 2011 Posted March 25, 2011 Heard this one today on the road today...yeah, it's a keeper for me now. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5RlbAoSP_9o
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