quietGuy13 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 So i had my awesome date. Anytime i have met girls(and is not that often it's actualy rare for me), i put it down on my notebook cause it's a great memory and it makes me happy. It even helps as a memory exercise cause i recall everything we did and write it down. Even anything we talked about, . LIke the recent date i had, after the date i came home and was really excited i started writing(typing into a text file) everything we talked about.. surprisingly i was able to remember it all. or most
january2011 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 No, I don't think so. If you don't mind sharing, it's also good writing it on here. It would be nice to read some positive dating stories for once.
ascendotum Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 What did you do that's different? A month back I was reading posts from you about how you had no personality and were ugly and girls never talk to you. I've hardly logged in for the past month and I now see you are going out on dates with a 'cute' girl. Well done. Keep doing whatever you changed about yourself and 2011 is looking good for you. Oh to answer your post here..nothing wrong with it.
Author quietGuy13 Posted February 25, 2011 Author Posted February 25, 2011 What did you do that's different? A month back I was reading posts from you about how you had no personality and were ugly and girls never talk to you. I've hardly logged in for the past month and I now see you are going out on dates with a 'cute' girl. Well done. Keep doing whatever you changed about yourself and 2011 is looking good for you. Oh to answer your post here..nothing wrong with it. Well is mostly luck. Yes i did start talking to strangers and saying HI..and i did do some smalltalk with a few people but ...it was mostly luck and I met the kind of people I'm comfortable with so it was easy to befriend. She is foreign and nice and polite. Many american girls would not accept me at all. Cause i'm slow, quiet, and boring to them. they think shy 30 year olds are immature and stupid. So, i just talked to some people from the culture I'm comfortable with, and i was myself and she accepted me really easy. Compare that with how it is at work, Everyone at work(except the old ladies) is loudmouth and cocky and they think i'm stupid cause i'm quiet. This is true. Like all the women in the customer service department would tease me and get angry just cause i spoke soft and slow. How can you even make friends with that kind of people. I give up with people at work, I do talk with some old ladies at work, they're really nice. but for the most part everyone has no interest in me cause I'm not the way they are. So no, I didn't change myself to meet this nice girl. I was myself. january2011. thanks for your interest. I would write it but maybe it's too long and boring to you guys. But being myself doesn't work with people who just like people who are the same as they are. I've come to the conclusion that I must seek out accepting and patient people. ANd so far i found 2 girls. so that's nice.
january2011 Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 january2011. thanks for your interest. I would write it but maybe it's too long and boring to you guys. It's up to you. But I do enjoy reading your updates regarding your progress and I'm pretty sure that many regulars and newcomers find them inspirational.
Cee Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 I have enjoyed reading your updates as well. I am inspired by your progress and ability to take risks. I would suggest that if you want to write about a date on LS, that you write about your impressions of the situation overall and moments which were particularly important rather than the whole thing. For me personally, I don't want to know the details about what was said and done, but rather how a person felt through the experience. I think there's a blog function on Love Shack and maybe you could put some of your dating experiences in there. I'm not sure how it works, but I have noticed that some people on LS have blogs. But please keep posting on here however you'd like. I love everything you've had to say.
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