quietGuy13 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 NOTE: This is not that I'm dating 2. I'm only dating the 2nd one. The first one is just meet 1 hour for language teaching( she teaches me) Both are just my friends, and they dont know eachother nor have ever met. They're from the same country. I wasn't planning to meet the 2 of them but it happened. THe first day after i met the first, i suddenly met this other one. The first girl is helping me with foreign language and i haven't told her that I have another friend from her same nationality. I don't think she needs to know, does she? By the way, the first girl( who's teaching me language ) has a Boyfriend. I'm not there to pick her up or anything. i'm just there for language learning. I don't need to tell her that i have another friend of the same nationality. do i?
january2011 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 I don't need to tell her that i have another friend of the same nationality. do i? No, you don't need to. But out of interest you might like to mention it since they have the same nationality. Though if you don't want to mention it, it's also no big deal, in my opinion.
Author quietGuy13 Posted February 25, 2011 Author Posted February 25, 2011 No i'ts not about sleeping or boyfriends things. I"m just saying that the first girl who was teaching me..might think.. "Well he's spending alot of time with that other girl and they practice language too so why would he need me?" But that language girl she's nice so i don't want to just let her go. OR maybe i should? i mean she's mainly being seeing me because she wants to earn some money. I dont think she's much of a friend. Maybe she thinks i'm rich and that i'll keep going to her for lessons,, but actually maybe i should stop seeing her. because last time we just met for friendly talk and she kinda pushed the "next time we'll do the lesson.." i mean, she is friendly and so far she's nice and kind to me but i feel she's mostly wanting to earn money. The other girl doesn't charge money and we just started as friends free. What should i do? The language teaching one,, actually doesn't even have experience teaching and didn't even have any plan or idea how to start teaching me. She even said she doesn't even remember how to write in her language since she doesn't practice much.
D-Lish Posted February 25, 2011 Posted February 25, 2011 Nothing you are doing requires any sort of disclosure...? You're not dating either one, and one has a bf that you are paying to spend time with for instructional purposes. I thought you were going to betray something juicy...lol. Nothing to worry about here. Start dating one of them and then get entangled with the other romantically- then you'll have a problem. As it stands now? Nothing to worry about.
Author quietGuy13 Posted February 25, 2011 Author Posted February 25, 2011 Nothing you are doing requires any sort of disclosure...? You're not dating either one, and one has a bf that you are paying to spend time with for instructional purposes. I thought you were going to betray something juicy...lol. Nothing to worry about here. Start dating one of them and then get entangled with the other romantically- then you'll have a problem. As it stands now? Nothing to worry about. thanks alot
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