lexsim Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 Hi All, Good day. I'm kinda new here. I didn't know who to turn to. So I opted to express this here. I have just broke up with my girlfriend. We broke up due to constant argument and I have controlled her too much. She got tired. I have tried to win her back but in vain. She ignores me and sometimes get annoyed at me easily. She told me that she is enjoying her single life now. She do not want any changes now and kept going out with her friends. She even went out for a movie with a guy she barely met. If she fall for this guy, the picture will get nastier for me. I've been trying to find out my mistakes and take time to go through some changes. Change for a better person. Her parents were furious about the break up as well and worse still she is ignoring me after that. I really love her. But how do I face this and win her back?
turokturok5 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 hey after you read these forums for a bit you'll come to learn that the only thing you can do is go "no contact" with your ex. Go to the breaking-up forums, and find one of the threads called "guide to NC and second chances" by gator 12, it'l help you realise what you need to do. If you guys did really love eachother, then think of her seeing a new guy as a good thing? I know its really hard to get your head around that its a good thing...but if it was so sudden, she'll probably be comparing you to him in every way and may realise that what she had was better then what she thinks she can get.
Author lexsim Posted February 24, 2011 Author Posted February 24, 2011 thanks but I'm kinda frust right now
turokturok5 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 yeah i know how you feel, im kinda going through the same exept i was dumped out of the blue. Im starting to realise its unfair to assume that an ex getting a new partner will make them come back to you, its stupid when you think about it, sure it wont be you, sure they may realise you were better, but by then they probably have no feelings left for you, only the regret that they got rid of you, if it was really love, she'll come back
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