Goodwoman Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 My Ex left me about 5 months ago for another woman. He pretty much moved right out of our place and into hers. We were together 6 years. I did what most shocked dumpees do and attempted to get him back for about 2 weeks or so. Went pretty much NC ever since. He has been texting me about every 2 weeks since he left. (Seriously, this has been going on 5 months!?!?) I have not responded to any of his texts with the exception of one time when I told him I didnt want to be his 'friend' and he should leave me alone. Anyway, yesterday I get yet another text from him that said "I am truely sorry for all I did to you and I hope everything is going well. I miss you {petname}." Of course, I did not respond to this either. This is not the first time he has texted that he misses me. He has also texted pictures that he took of me that he still has saved on his phone?? What do you make of this? Are these texts guilt driven? Is the grass not as green as he thought it would be? I dont understand why he writes these texts knowing I wont respond. Has anyone had a similar situation? How did it end?
SDA Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 Sorry to hear what he is putting you through. He is definitely looking for you too say "It's ok I forgive you and you were right for leaving and I hope your happy". But you are doing the best thing. Sure he misses you, 6 years is a long time. Maybe the grass isn't greener but maybe it is. Keep ignoring. Post here for support.
9Lives Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 Do you want to talk to him? Do you want to get back together?
Author Goodwoman Posted February 24, 2011 Author Posted February 24, 2011 Do you want to talk to him? Do you want to get back together? I dont know. I would love to give it another try. I really think we had something but I think that it would never work. I would never trust him. But I just dont understand why he keeps playing with my emotions like this. He has a new woman and I respect that. I have pretty much disappreared. He's the one that left me. Why the need to play with my mind?
9Lives Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 I dont know. I would love to give it another try. I really think we had something but I think that it would never work. I would never trust him. But I just dont understand why he keeps playing with my emotions like this. He has a new woman and I respect that. I have pretty much disappreared. He's the one that left me. Why the need to play with my mind? Goodwoman, have you hear from your ex again? I really want to know
Author Goodwoman Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 Goodwoman, have you hear from your ex again? I really want to know No. He usually waits a couple weeks in between the messages. I always get them when I least expect them.
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