XEnglishRoseX Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 Hi there, me and my ex split up 2 weeks ago, I finished with him after quite a few arguments thinking it would shock him into realising we need to work harder at the relationship. It back fired though as he accepted what I said and when I asked is this what you want he said yes because he was fed up of arguing. I miss him like crazy and really want to give it another go but I don't know wether it's too soon to contact him or what to say. Im scared of rejection as I am only just starting to feel ok with things. Can anyone give me some advice, is it too soon? I'f not how world I go about it without leaving myself too open to getting hurt again. Or should I leave it up to him to contact me? Thanks
wmrjw82 Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 You ended things. Now live with your choice. Apparently you weren't really happy and the only reason you miss him is your fear of abandonment. You can't have your pie and eat it too. Go strict no contact...if you dont hear from him you know he's not missing you and its over. If you contact him about reconcilation he knows he has you right where he wants you. You will be rejected. sorry about that.
tommy.is.my.name Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 IYou left him. If you really love him call him and tell him how you feel. No matter what his reply is. You owe yourself that.
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