Vickstar Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 So its finally coming clear to me about why he broke up with me (4 months ago) In our 1 year relationship i was very laid back, i didnt mind him going out with friends, was never jealous of him talking to girls, never clingy, i let him do what he wanted and i honestly didnt mind, there were certain things i would be upset about like him not coming down to see me after i came back from hospital after breaking my foot and him not wanting to come down for dinner with my grandparents and other little things, i can totally understand that it was my fault for letting him feel like he can do anything he wants. I now realise guys dont like girls who are doormats, they like girls who are strong, independant, know what they want and let guys know they're upset about something etc So hes with another girl now but im pretty sure its a rebound cos shes leaving in a few months to go travelling. Do you think after shes gone he may want to reconcile? Im not really sure if i'd want him back though but knowing that hes made a mistake would really make me feel alot happier ps ive changed loads since the split, ive become a totally different person, alot more confident, stronger and lost loads of weight.
brokenticker Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 I kind of disagree.. but i think thats based on the person I am... If a woman was strong or not.. id never treat them as a doormat... But I do think to myself why do people want to be back with there exs when they did treat them like a doormat. But hey im single again.. my ex thinks she is a strong woman.. but she had so many moments of weakness.. and id always be there for her no matter what.. and i got pushed away.. so what does that say about me haha
fiat500 Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 some people just aren't mature to appreciate things. it's perfectly okay for guys to hang out with their friends..(if a girlfriend didn't let them do that it's a fast ticket to unhappiness and getting dumped) and it's fine for them to talk to girls. it's just *how* they talk to other girls is key. if he flirted with them and you allowed it, then you were a doormat. if he didn't flirt with them, then you weren't a doormat and he was just an *******.
0hpenelope Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 some people just aren't mature to appreciate things. That's right! Some people, really.
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