Rebound!!!

[nandoschicken]

So my ex is currently involved with a new chick after our 2 year relationship ended just a week ago. He ended it with me because he wanted to go partying and meet girls without any restrictions. It broke my heart, but I accepted it and didnt contact him at all. Throughout our 2 year relationship, I always tried to get out of it. Because it wasn't healthy. He would always drop me as soon as he got attention from other girls, but then come right back when he got bored. He would threaten suicide each and every time i tried to leave him because i wasn't happy. It wasn't a healthy relationship. It got to the point where i thought, well if i can't leave him, then ill just wait til he does. That way, he won't threaten suicide.

He now calls her pet names that he used to call me, he tells her he loves her, he wants to marry her and have her babies, his facebook statuses are all soppy things about her, he draws pictures for her (he is a really good artist). All this in a week?

They knew each other in primary school (which was agesss ago) and lost contact until a few days before he and i ended. But since then, they haven't seen each other. So they've pretty much been keeping in touch via facebook and phone..

Thing is though, she recently just came out of a relationship as well. I'm guessing it was the same time my ex and i ended. But recently, she went back to her ex. Which left my ex lonely (he has issues with being on his own) which led him to contacting me. But he didn't say much. He left me mail on facebook saying my name with a sad face next to it. Anyway, he found out i was still good mates with his cousin. Found out she had me as her friend on facebook so he stalked my page while signed into his cousin's page. He attempted to look thru my pictures but then pulled out saying "I can't do this." then signed out. He also admitted to his cousin that everytime he's alone at home, all he thinks about is me, that's why he is always staying over at other people's houses.

 

It got me confused yet excited cos i was sure that he was going to come back. However, just this monday, i was texting his cousin and he happened to be with her at that time and he saw my texts. So he then texted me saying "you're texting my cousin " i figured i'd text him back (since he was no longer with that girl) and arranged to meet up so i could get it out of him and ask why he was still contacting me if he ended things with me in the first place. At first he agreed to it, but then started making up excuses about having guests over at his house and that he couldnt meet up til later. He told me to just wait and he'd text me when he was ready.

 

I thought to myself, "F--- that. I'm not guna sit around waiting for some prick to meet up with me." So i cancelled. He texted saying "whats wrong just tell me."

 

I ignored it. Never replied back. Then he texted again later during the day saing "I'm sorry." And that was that. I thought he would've tried harder but nope. He left it at that. And so did I. Little did I know, the whole time this was happening, that other chick came back. So while he was texting me and making up excuses to not see me, he was texting her too.

 

Turns out, she's still with her bf but she is still texting my ex. Even though, her bf told her not to. She seems like the kinda girl that likes the whole attention thing from guys.Its like having one guy isnt enough for her. Sort of similar to my ex.

 

Anyway, my point being is.

I know my ex loved me. Becos he was very attached to me. We were the best of friends. Did everything together. I can even admit that he felt much more for me than i ever did for him. I dont kno how to explain it, but he just did.

 

I just wanted to know, if he is rebounding with her, and she is rebounding with him.... will they work out? I want to know, because well, although i am fine now, i did go thru a very dark and tough time letting him go. I mean i put up with his crap for 2 years only to have him leave like this? I want him to feell the pain that i felt. I want him to miss me again. I want him to remember me and all the things that we've done. Will this happen to him anytime soon???