Hote204 Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 wow just when you think things could not get even crazier! We have established that my ex was abusive and off his head. I have done the NC but he just turns up at my house. We tried to get back together but he just pushed me to do things i didnt want yet (move back in, tell my parents we were back together etc etc) so we finished again (after some further hurtfull remarks!). Anyhow, i have tried to be nice and tell him theres no way we can be together and he just keeps asking me to marry him. Its constant and seeing someone you loved in that much pain is a terrible thing, i hate it. He calls me at midnight last night saying he was drunk alone in a pub. He was hysterical and crying and i went to pick him up. I knew as i was driving there that he may be having me on but i was so worried. He sounded in such a bad way. I get to the pub and there are drunk people everywhere..its 1.00am and i'm alone. HE REFUSED TO ANSWER HIS PHONE EVEN THOUGH HE KNEW I WAS THERE!? I text him saying i'm outside and he needed to get his ass out there and his reply was "dont be like that". I sat there like a plum for 15 mins. I just left, i left a voicemail telling him to never ever speak to me again. Then his dad must have picked him up at 3.00am and BOUGHT HIM TO MY HOUSE!? He was knocking the windows to wake me up! I ignored the bas*ard. I cant believe he fooled me again. Sometimes being a caring and nice person doesnt pay off. It was all just a game..else he would have come out when i got there. He wasnt on his own either, he was with all of his work friends. I am a joke and he is a scum bag
smudge21 Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 You're right that he's a scum bag, but you're not a joke. You're just doing all those similar things we all do when we still have feelings for someone. I look back over my previous ex's and hide my head in shame at the times I've really kissed their ass all because I loved them and they just walked all over me. You know what you must do and that's make sure this creep stays well away from you so you can fully move on to someone better and more deserving.
Author Hote204 Posted February 23, 2011 Author Posted February 23, 2011 Thanks i know, i am just so mad at myself. I hate it when he cries like that but i guess its all part of the abusive manipulation. He had been at my house only 4 hours before begging for us to get back together, then he does that. i will give it to him, he deserves an award for the acts hes pulled off. He is a grown man, 33 to be exact. I think he's mad at me for not getting back with him but he constantly pressured me to fully get back with him, which in turn made me indecisive. He doesnt care about my feelings - i see him as a rather nasty vindictive man.
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