P&R Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 Once you got into a relationship to ask your SO about the other guys or gals they were dating at the same time as you? I have this strange curiosity about it. It's not jealousy it is more of a personal amusement... I find it interesting who my competion was. I have to bite my tounge though because it is a bad subject to bring up. Anyone have this weird curiosity before? I want to stop these thoughts but at the same time I'm so curious!
xpaperxcutx Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 I'll be curious about his past " relationships" but I wouldn't be curious about the dates he's been on. Asking that question not only makes you come across as insecure, but you might end getting more info than you actually want to hear. Why can't you just accept the fact that your gf chose you and be happy with that? Don't make everything into a competition, she's not a trophy, but a a human being.
Author P&R Posted February 23, 2011 Author Posted February 23, 2011 I'll be curious about his past " relationships" but I wouldn't be curious about the dates he's been on. Asking that question not only makes you come across as insecure, but you might end getting more info than you actually want to hear. Why can't you just accept the fact that your gf chose you and be happy with that? Don't make everything into a competition, she's not a trophy, but a a human being. I don't see her as a trouphy but I like knowing who I was competing against because I'm a competitive person and she already gave me some info. Guh she's killing me by giving me that tidbit of information about my competion.
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