Vixen Gemma Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 I only looked back at him because I knew he was looking at me. It was like I could feel his eyes burning into my head. And it was so unlike me to not let go of the stare, it kind of excited me. I sometimes wonder if he should be starring like that at me. What if he's married? I'll stop, I won't approach or be so bold as to do anything flirtatious. He doesn't wear a ring however. What if he's not? He's older, not by a lot but he is older. I don't care much for age, I've preferred older men anyways. If he's not married, engaged, in a relationship whatsoever...then I'll pursue. He won't even correct me if I do something wrong, he doesn't want to scold me, it wasn't anything serious or childish but something that I could test the waters with, to see if he'd say anything about what was being done. He's a police officer, GO FIGURE (my last relationship was with a PO) but he's nothing like my last. He comes in regularly to my university. He does his job while he's there and when I bump into him he shy's down. He has this movement where he takes his right hand and runs it straight through his hair, but looks down. If I get real close, if I have to for whatever reason like if there's a line to exit the university or something, he'll play with his police cap and aim his eyes down. It makes me smile/blush. BUT, unless you got a bottle of Tequila lying around this girl is not gaining the courage to be so brave as to say anything to him! Lol, I tried, once, and I froze, I guess I'm more shy than I thought. Plus, I don't know how I should approach him, from what angle or if I should wait and see if he does. Or..I can always torture him with a stare and a smile and see him stare at the floor as if Spanish gold would appear from thin air. I want some ideas on how I could approach this situation. Anything will do, my mind is filled with nonsense at the moment..
Nexus One Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 (edited) You: Hi my name is Vixen, what's your name? Him: I'm Joe. You: I was wondering if you're single and would want to go have a coffee with me some time. Him: I'm single and would love to go on a coffee with you. You: *smile*, negotiate time, date and place. You: I'm looking forward to our date. See you, bye! *smile*. Do it at a moment where he clearly has the time, not when he's cuffing and tazing some student that forgot to bring a library pass. Edited February 23, 2011 by Nexus One
Author Vixen Gemma Posted February 23, 2011 Author Posted February 23, 2011 You: Hi my name is Vixen, what's your name? Him: I'm Joe. You: I was wondering if you're single and would want to go have a coffee some time. Do it at a moment where he clearly has the time, not when he's cuffing and tazing some student that forgot to bring a library pass. I Just had a genuine laugh because of this. Something like that is coming off too strong though. I think I might need a teeny shot of tequila. My nerves will be so worked up! He really has me feeling tense about this.
Author Vixen Gemma Posted February 23, 2011 Author Posted February 23, 2011 Hey you changed it. But it does sound a bit better.
Nexus One Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 I know this is quite direct, but it's clear and sincere and it's what guys understand without having to play guessing games, especially police officers would appreciate it I think. A girl coming up to him like that will make his day. However even though he doesn't have a ring he might have a girlfriend though, but if you're lucky he's single.
Author Vixen Gemma Posted February 23, 2011 Author Posted February 23, 2011 True, if I'm lucky. See, this is how I know I like a guy. If I get shy to the point where confrontation is a b**** or my legs go a little weak, then I know it's because there's something about him I like. I'm like his secret admirer and vice-versa but it's really not so secret. I'm 21 and I know he's at least 29 or dare I say a bit older. I will ask him, I'll probably laugh at myself for getting nervous over something so normal, I just hope I don't do it while I'm approaching him, I'll look mental.
Nexus One Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 (edited) I will ask him, I'll probably laugh at myself for getting nervous over something so normal, I just hope I don't do it while I'm approaching him, I'll look mental. Even if you get nervous, a guy who's worth it is going to look beyond it. It's like with job interviews, many people get nervous at job interviews, but if an employer wouldn't be willing to look past that then he could hardly hire any employees. Edited February 23, 2011 by Nexus One
musemaj11 Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 Why not make a bit of a small talk rather than going *WHAM BOOM*? Dont be flirty or seductive. Just be friendly and respectful. If he responds positively, offer to treat him to a $0.99 instant noodle at the campus canteen.
Graviton Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 Why not make a bit of a small talk Hey there Mr. officer. I'm a BAD student, I'm a BAD BAD student, cuff me Mr officer!
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