tacoking37 Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 I've been with this girl a pretty short time only a few months but everything was great. We both fell for eachother really quickly and idk it was just amazing. Then this past week she was acting odd but claimed it was nothing, and yesterday she said she was confused about us and broke up with me and said she needed time to be alone and think about all of this. she claims there is no other reason than that but im just not sure, and i have no idea what to do now...
LittleTiger Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 There's not much you can do. If she says it's over, then it's over. I'm sorry to say it but I would guess that she's met somebody else.
samspade Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 Too much too fast, my friend. You probably made yourself too available. Nothing will kill a woman's interest faster than that, and the 3 month stage is usually the fulcrum at which they decide they want to keep you around or not. In the future, make sure you have other things going on so you're not too available. Don't move so fast. Let her chase you a bit...keep the mystery so she doesn't get bored.
fishtaco Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 That's just how it is. Welcome to dating. Were you exclusive? If you were then it is what it is. You move on. If you were not exclusive, then you should have been dating other women all this time, and moving on would be a no-brainer because you're seeing other women already. Things like this happens. What samspade said makes sense, but personally that's not my approach. My preference is to have one foot out the door and be ready to find someone else. For me I believe it's easier to find someone else than spend the extra effort to keep one that's not cooperating.
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