Xewkija Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 How many days a week and how long do you usually hang out with your partner? Should their be a limit so you both get space and appreciate each other when you see each other again.
ShatteredReality Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 (edited) That can be totally different based on personalities. I know couples who do everything together and couldn't be happier...and I know couples who do most things apart and live more like glorified roommates, but they are happy with this arrangement. I think we all need "me" time, but it depends on who you are as to how much "me" time you need. I can count on one hand how many times I have been apart from my H for more than one day...a couple of little trips... Twice a week I go work out with the girls, though I'd like to add a third day...that's still only like an hour or two each time. He is happy as a clam to stay home and have me there with him 24/7, though. His alone time is just hanging out in the other room without me, but having the comfort of knowing I am there if he needs me or wants me. I am different, I like to go walk around a store alone....or read a book while no one is home to interrupt me. We try to find a balance...not always easy, but definitely something you need to discuss as a couple (when you're comfortable enough with eachother to talk about those things). Edited February 22, 2011 by ShatteredReality Fixed spelling.
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