Dox Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 I'm not a total shy guy to the opposite sex. I have a lot of friends that are girls. My friends ask me all the time why I dont have a gf and tells me I should have one etc... My problem is when I like a girl, I just end up loosing them because I never make a move. I know its because I'm scared I might get rejected. I'm 18 and I've only had 2 GFs, but I never really worked hard to get them because they already both liked me. I dont know what to do. I need advice
tman666 Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 In the words of Tallahassee ala "Zombieland": time to nut up or shut up. You've got to get yourself used to making chit chat with the wimmenz, even if it's uncomfortable at this point. In your defense, you're only 18. Confidence can take a while to establish itself, so don't pressure yourself too much. Just go out and have fun. Socialize without having the goal of "hooking up" or finding a girl. They're human beings too, ya know. They have bad breath in the morning, burp, fart, and have secrets and insecurities just like everyone else. Treat them as such.
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