Dr Pump Cheeks Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 I'll try to make this short for you guys. A co-worker and I went to a concert together a few months back. We had a great time, and began talking regularly through text and phone calls. She would do most of the initiating of conversation, and would almost always call me when she was done with work for the day. We began to spend more time together; taking breaks together at work, and hanging out outside of work on our days off. There was definitely mutual attraction, and she told me that she needed time to figure out our future plans, and that "she would give me her all" when she knew that we could be together officially. After another week or so, she took me with her to her hometown, where we had dinner with her grandparents. When we got home that night, she let me kiss her. Fast forward to one week later, she texts me saying that she doesn't want a relationship right now. Ever since then, there is hardly any conversation outside of work. I do most of the initiating of text messages these days. So what happened guys? What am I to do now? She really hit me in the gut, and I need to know what my next step should be...
blackmagik Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 move on. If she doesn't want a relationship right now, she doesn't want a relationship. You would be wasting your time.
Shocking Pink Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 What happened at dinner with her grandparents?
Mrlonelyone Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 She did all the initiating. She took you to meet her grandparents. What have you done except go along for the ride? If you want a relationship with her you have to let her know that. Give her some space and time then ask her to meet some of your people or something of that nature. Honestly it sounds like she has been investing more in the relationship.
musemaj11 Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 She did all the initiating. She took you to meet her grandparents. What have you done except go along for the ride? Probably paid for the ride ...
mustofbeen Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 act like nothing happened, do not ignore her at work, say hi and that's it, do not text her or call her, she will get a hold of you if she wants, and when she does blow her off few times, if she continues and you still like her go out with her
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