jinx55 Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 Hi all, My post is about a girl I met recently and we have been on a total of 4 dates. Everything seemed to be going well we talked to each other on the phone everyday we didn't see each other and it really seemed like mutual relationship was in development, our dates went really well ect.... Then all of a sudden today I talk to her and she told me she was on a date with another guy. She said she still wants to go on more dates and she had a great time with me. But I need some unbiased opinions here on whether or not I should go on another date with this girl.
somethingsimple Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 Yeah, I would. She's entitled to see what's out there for her. In all actually, I commend her for telling you that she went out on a date with another guy. On another note, don't close out all your options yet either.
mtber75 Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 Hi all, My post is about a girl I met recently and we have been on a total of 4 dates. Everything seemed to be going well we talked to each other on the phone everyday we didn't see each other and it really seemed like mutual relationship was in development, our dates went really well ect.... Then all of a sudden today I talk to her and she told me she was on a date with another guy. She said she still wants to go on more dates and she had a great time with me. But I need some unbiased opinions here on whether or not I should go on another date with this girl. That sucks! Was your dates touchy feely (romantic) or just friendly. If it was the latter part, its understandable that she's keeping her options open. But you have to make it clear to her if you want this to be serious or not!
GivenUp0083 Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 That sucks! Was your dates touchy feely (romantic) or just friendly. If it was the latter part, its understandable that she's keeping her options open. But you have to make it clear to her if you want this to be serious or not! I agree with the making it clear to her. I mean, it's just 4 dates. I'm assuming you didnt have sex. All she did was spend time with you and it sounds like she had an awesome time. If you are ready to take the next step forward then tell her that you'd like to be exclusive. She'll either say she's up for it or she'll tell you she wants to remain single and keep her options open. Then you can decide from there what you want.
Sivok Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 You aren't exclusive, and this is completely normal in the dating world. Nothing to make a fuss about. Use protection
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