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This is the last of the messages my ex-girlfriend sent me after our break up. We were fighting because this was 2 weeks after the break up and she told me the only other guy in her life (that she met at a bowling alley years ago) was going to come fly and stay in a hotel to come visit her. I got mad because even though we were broken up, I felt like I was being cheated on when she told me he was coming to visit her.

 

-They are now in a LDR (She knew him before she met me, and broke it off with his LDR to be with me and now they are back in a LDR)

-I f*cked up in the relationship and I think I will not surely have closure until I have another chance at it. The break-up gave me time to think, and I realized lots and lots of things I was doing wrong in the relationship due to my own selfishness, and immaturity.

 

 

"October 14, 2010 at 1:24pm

 

I'm so upset after last night - this sorry doesn't suffice. I'm not pausing my life while you get yours together. I'm going to make choices for myself and do what I want to do,

 

Maybe further in the future we could rekindle things - but after last night, not annnnnyyyy time soon. It was just like a reminder of why I was miserable. You really can't make accusations like you did and then profess your love for me."

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What concerns me is why you are obsessing over a message sent 4 months ago?!?!

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Well if I had to guess, I would say it means...

 

She is upset after last night

She's not pausing her life while you get yours together

She's going to make her choices for herself and do what she wants to do

She doesn't want to rekindle things any time soon

 

To summarize... you're dumped, move on!

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