Sephe632 Posted February 21, 2011 Posted February 21, 2011 Hello All, So I'm just going to get this all out as quickly as I can. I'm have been in a relationship with a man who is cheating on his wife for the last two years. I have gone on dates but have not slept with anyone else but this man. For the last 18 months I have been writing and visiting with a man in prison (this man is my sister's husband's family). We are friends, but lately he has been hinting at wanting more. He does not want me to see anyone else, makes comments that I should buy a ring to wear when I am out with my girlfriends. He comes home in a less than a year and he does not know that I have been seeing someone. I don't know how I feel about my friend in prison wanting more from this. I don't need advice on how dating a married man is wrong or how I am tearing his family apart. In this situation what would you do?
Woman In Blue Posted February 21, 2011 Posted February 21, 2011 You ask what we would do in your situation? Well let me see ... the choice is either a convict whose getting sprung in a year, or a married, lying cheater - is that correct? Well gosh, they're both so appealing that I'd probably have a hell of a time choosing just one of them. Decisions, decisions. Hey I know! I'd probably go down to the bad end of town and pick up a homeless wino off the streets because chances are, he's still a better choice than the other two.
neveragain1 Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 I don't know how I feel about my friend in prison wanting more from this. I don't need advice on how dating a married man is wrong or how I am tearing his family apart. In this situation what would you do? uh, I'd stop dating a married man, and not even entertain seeing a man that has been in prison(if I were a woman that is). Does someone need to give you that could-have-had-a-V8 slap??
jnj express Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 Hey sephe if you are seriously asking us to give you advice, about condoning a cheater, you, and you going out with a convicted felon, who wants exclusivity without you having been with him AT ALL---YOU HAVE GOT SERIOUS PROBLEMS
PegNosePete Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 The thing about guys in prison is that often they take whatever female attention they can get. They say anything to receive nice letters and to see a pretty lady once a week. Knowing that you have a ring on your finger around your friends is a turn-on for him and gives him excitement and hope and pleasure while he is sitting alone in his cell. He might well have more than one woman on the go like this. When he gets out he is unlikely to stick around since he has no further use for you. Woman In Blue said it right, choose a wino off the street in preference to either of these guys.
Distant78 Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 This is some pretty disturbing stuff right here.
flume Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 Well I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you that take an informed decision and fast otherwise your emotions will tear you apart later. I say from personal experience. Good Luck
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