Author turn_the_page Posted March 10, 2011 Author Posted March 10, 2011 ahhh yes... the infamous "i need space" that leads to the truth. My ex did the same thing. Swore on her life she didn't. She ended up admitting it a couple days later when I had her cornered on something. I don't know why they do this. If they are done, want to leave for the other guy, just ****n spill it. I did the same thing as you. Turned my back, told her I never want to hear from her again. My ex had issues with her self worth for a long time. She landed her dream gig and turned into an attention seeking whore. man, 7 years with someone and you'd think you knew them. Yeah thing is she still wont admit it to me, she is saying our friend who told me is lying and that she is innocent. It's like she is still trying to keep me close?! She told our friend there was no point in telling me this because it has just caused more upset and has 'ruined everything'. I dont see how it has ruined anything more than before?! I think she is just in denial about everything, it was the same when we broke up, she was in a way trying to persuade herself it was the right decision, yet kept coming back a few times, insistant on being friends and we've hung out quite a bit... she seems like she still wants me to be interested. I sent her a text message saying that either way whether I believe her or not its made me realise that I deserve better than this and that I no longer want to be with her. She replied saying that what I said hurt but im right I do deserve better, then was trying to make small talk... Why bother? It's still like she cant let me go completely...
Layzie89 Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 Another story where person broke NC and **** hit the fan quickly after so he went back to NC. Thanks for your story TTP, reassures me that sticking to NC is the best way to go. Stay strong homie
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