kris-26 Posted February 21, 2011 Posted February 21, 2011 So heres the deal...my ex and I have a complicated relationship. We have had to deal with a number of tough issues together. We broke up five months ago but have kept in constant contact bc we were going to have a baby together. I lost the baby about amonth ago. I know have some serious medical issues that I am dealing with. The back story my ex has serious emotional issues stemming from child abuse and loss of a parent. He keeps telling me he is empty and he is poison and he is trying to save me and that he has no chance but I sitll have a change and that he feels guilty that hes ruined my life. He is emotionally cutoff and is filled with self hate and despair. and he was a compulsive liar while we were dating but all and all not good for me at all!!! But my question everytime I say ok, your right you are poison and I am better off and say good bye. He will text with in a few hours or next day and ask me how I am feeling. He says he still cares for me as much as he is capable of caring but they he will never be able to be what I want or need. So why when I agree to move on does he contact me? I know I need to just stop answering and go NC. but I dont understand.
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