citrusdrop1688 Posted February 21, 2011 Posted February 21, 2011 My ex boyfriend and I had been together for one year and a month. We broke up a little over a month ago. The main reasons for the break up is that we both felt as though we had lost some aspects of ourselves to the relationship. However, the break up was his idea and he insinuated that he felt as though he was growing up too fast. We had been discussing marriage and family. We had even discussed starting to save up for a house. He's 24 and I'm 22. I think alot of that is related to being forced to grow up too fast when he was younger. We did meet up to trade stuff three days after the break up and at that time he told me that he loved me but he wasnt emotionally available right now and that he thought I deserved more. We both cried and discussed how much we would miss each other. When we said goodbye he said he would always want to know what was going on with me and that he knew we should probably wait a few weeks to talk but that it wasnt good bye cause we would see each other again. After a week of NC I broke down and emailed him. He told me he was having a hard time and that he still cried every time he thought about me so he thought it was still too soon to try to talk. A week later I asked if he wanted to meet up for coffee and he said it was still too soon for him. A week after this, last Saturday he started chatting with me on facebook and asked me how I was doing. He said he was still having a hard time and that the weekends were really difficult cause everything reminded him of me. After maybe five minutes I tried to end the conversation and he asked if I was dating anyone. He then started talking about how he wished he knew we were in different places and he still loved me. That he didnt want to be with anyone else but me he just couldnt right now. He also said he wasnt dating and didnt think he would be able to date anyone else until he knew that we wouldnt be able to work out for sure. I dont know if I should just move on and forget him. I feel so torn. This is the third time Ive been in love and nothing ever felt anything close to what we had. I feel like we were meant to be together, but we just got lost the last few months and got in the way. His birthday is next week. Should I send a card, call, email. Or should I just wait for him to call me and assume if he doesnt call that it was never really meant to be.
Call Me Al Posted February 21, 2011 Posted February 21, 2011 Breaking it will just prolong the confusion.
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